I agree with you. They're so nice there.
But they seem to be spending their time saying "Just keep on breathing in and out", and "I miss him so much", and "We're here for each other".
Really very nice sentiments, but maybe it's just me, but I was expecting a much wider range of thoughts, musings, meanderings, rage, even humour, but they seem to be quietly grieving, and then quietly getting on with their lives, without articulating much.
I applaud them for the ability to get on with it, but a bit more talking would be good. I suppose that aspies tend to be annoyingly chatty to NTs, once they get going, and now this aspie wants the NTs to be a bit more chatty on the subject. Lol.