I feel so stupid.

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I should have never admitted feelings or gotten them in the first place. I had an internet friend who i was pretty convinced liked me back. and even if he didnt, id still want to be his friend...but i dont think we're friends anymore. stupid emotions of mine ruin everything.

Just send him an email saying that it's cool if he just wants to be friends and that you'll chat to him another time. Keep it light and act the same as you normally would next time you talk to him.

I had that happen to me with this French girl...try not to develop feelings for people over the internet.

Yeah. Just makes you feel silly.

Been there, done that. I would just forget that person, because they're the ones that have issues.

I hate that feeling. I have a very tough time knowing in someone is interested in me.

What makes you think that you are no longer friends with him? Some people will initially feel very awkward and back off for a little while but then are willing to resume the friendship....other people will back off and continue to avoid you.

I've had both situations happen.

Don't know about on-line stuff because I have never really cultivated that sort of relationship. But I had feelings for a friend once. Honestly I still do, but she's moved very far away and gotten involved with someone else. Ive had false positive predictions in regard to how another feels about me then gotten shot down and I've been too crazy about someone to risk it so let me tell you it's better to get shot down than live carrying the weight of "what if" around because its real heavy.

i think we're still friends...i always think its over...then it's not...so thats good. but he still doesnt like me romantically. :/

I'm glad you are still friends. It's really hard finding out that someone doesn't feel the same as you though. That sadness does fade away, it just takes time.

*hugs*

I do this all the time. I'm so bad at figuring out whether guys like me or not, so usually I just resolve to not make any moves or suggestions. But then I always do. Heh. I have an internet friend now who I'm crazy about. We've been talking every single day for the past year and I still don't know if he likes me.

I don't know if you do this or not but I always make...suggestions I guess, about liking him and then micro-analyze everything he says back. It's gotten me into a lot of trouble in the past and often leaves me with untrue assumptions on what he thinks about me.

Thanks. *hugs* It's already fading. It's more of just a lousy truth now, than like, heart-stoppingly bad.



Oh yeah....I do that. XD. I'm aware of how silly it is, and I can't do anything! Is this a girl's mistake? Or human one?