I like to give advice, but it's a path fraught with danger, especially when it's psychological advice! I usually try to leave it to the professionals, who are more able to maintain an objective position on these sorts of things. If it's psychological-type advice, I always just say "don't keep it private: tell lots of people until you find someone who gets it". And then I worry whether the person who 'gets it' will have any more of an insight than me!