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opal
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04 Apr 2010, 6:42 am

As the title says. I'm sick of being bullied, taken advantage of, ignored and treated as less than human. I wish I was never born.



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04 Apr 2010, 7:04 am

but you have been born, and you must deal with that as it is. it is a cold comfort but that there are legions in similar straits as you are. at least one is not alone in this. IOW "join the club." your options are-

*do nothing and accept the status quo
*move somewhere else and start over
*learn to become an @$$hole yourself and start throwing $h!t back at the @$$holes who are dumping on you

*last but not least, learn that the bullying @$$holes are just a pack of barking slobbery dogs who don't amount to a hill of beans in this world, IOW ignore them/avoid them as best you can, and live your own life as you see fit.
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04 Apr 2010, 7:20 am

opal wrote:
As the title says. I'm sick of being bullied, taken advantage of, ignored and treated as less than human. I wish I was never born.


Yeah, I know that feeling. :( But ultimately it's how you feel about yourself that counts. Even if those things are true (which I hope they're not), you can rise above them if you try and believe in yourself. Best of luck... :)



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04 Apr 2010, 7:57 am

I'd usually offer words of encouragement, but I feel the same - different problems, but similar outcome. Hang in there.



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04 Apr 2010, 8:38 am

i_wanna_blue wrote:
opal wrote:
As the title says. I'm sick of being bullied, taken advantage of, ignored and treated as less than human. I wish I was never born.


Yeah, I know that feeling. :( But ultimately it's how you feel about yourself that counts. Even if those things are true (which I hope they're not), you can rise above them if you try and believe in yourself. Best of luck... :)


I agree with the above.
Believe in yourself and see the bullies for the bunch of pathetic cowards that they are, and rise above them.

easier said then done, but it isn't impossible.



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04 Apr 2010, 8:38 am

i_wanna_blue wrote:
opal wrote:
As the title says. I'm sick of being bullied, taken advantage of, ignored and treated as less than human. I wish I was never born.


Yeah, I know that feeling. :( But ultimately it's how you feel about yourself that counts. Even if those things are true (which I hope they're not), you can rise above them if you try and believe in yourself. Best of luck... :)


whoops. double post.



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04 Apr 2010, 9:15 am

opal wrote:
As the title says. I'm sick of being bullied, taken advantage of, ignored and treated as less than human. I wish I was never born.

Most of us have been there, you just have to solder on, bullys are worthless people, keep going you are better than them.


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04 Apr 2010, 10:29 pm

You are all right. I am sorry for being such a downer. I've just been bullied out of a job, and though I'm better out of the place, I'm still feeling quite bitter. Hopefully it will be the start of something better :shrug: .