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zeldapsychology
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06 May 2010, 12:12 pm

I FINALLY Facebooked that friend who's in College she talked about failing her math test and locking her keys in her car LOL! She's going on 20 this year WOW! I haven't seen her in years!! !! (Last thing we did together was see Spider-man LOL!) Reading about her having friends etc. kind of teared me up I WANT FRIENDS DAMN IT!! !! !! !! !! !! ! :-( She has a boyfriend etc. DAMN IT!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! (Besides not being anywhere to make friends job/school (Hopefully the college thing works out) I just wish I could be successful and have friends :-( (Sadly though at times I wonder if I want friends.) :-( When it was my Bday once she came over and all I did was play my Gameboy and she watched (some friend I AM) and a guy friend I had I'd call and talk to him for like forever! (But I know when I get into my interest in this case going back to College I'll be SO WRAPPED up I will not have time for friends LOL! BTW I'd like to add it comes so naturally to others and yet I fail at IT!! !! !!



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06 May 2010, 12:19 pm

I don't know if I can help you there, but if you want to be my friend, that's fine with me.


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06 May 2010, 1:01 pm

zeldapsychology wrote:
I She's going on 20 this year WOW! I haven't seen her in years!! !! (Last thing we did together was see Spider-man LOL!)


This makes me feel very, very old.

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06 May 2010, 1:02 pm

I quit facebook for many reasons but one was that it was way too depressing seeing all my "friends" doing so many things with their life while I did nothing. I say "friends" in quotes because these were people I used to hang out with but eventually they stopped responding to me and didn't initiate any communication with me.

I have one friend, but we're so opposite in some quite important areas of life that I don't know if we should be friends or not, but if I don't keep him as a friend then I have none. And I don't know where I would go to even attempt to make new friends. But, like you said, I also sometimes wonder if I really want friends or not, I'm not sure if I'm a good enough friend to have friends. And I have trust issues, all of the friends I've ever had have either ditched me or betrayed me at some point.

I hope the best for you with college and everything, I think you're a cool person. :)


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06 May 2010, 2:13 pm

you are not the only one.

when people find my skills useful, they are ever so friendly,
when they don't, I don't exist in their book. some friends!


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06 May 2010, 3:16 pm

Facebook = stupid. Back when the hot thing was Myspace, I knew guys in my tech school who had porn stars as "friends" so they could look at the dirty pics. :? I didn't have a Myspace account, and I don't have a Facebook account. "Why don't you have a FB account?" Because it's stupid, that's why, and because all sorts of nasty viruses lurk there, including Koobface, which turns your computer into a zombie bot in a botnet. Koobface is hard to dislodge too. I know that all the people I knew in high school have awesome lives and families and tons of friends and great jobs, I don't need to be reminded of it all the time. My brain doesn't work the same, they have PC brains and I have a Mac brain, so of course there's gonna be compatibility issues.



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07 May 2010, 6:10 pm

SamwiseGamgee wrote:
I quit facebook for many reasons but one was that it was way too depressing seeing all my "friends" doing so many things with their life while I did nothing. I say "friends" in quotes because these were people I used to hang out with but eventually they stopped responding to me and didn't initiate any communication with me.

I have one friend, but we're so opposite in some quite important areas of life that I don't know if we should be friends or not, but if I don't keep him as a friend then I have none. And I don't know where I would go to even attempt to make new friends. But, like you said, I also sometimes wonder if I really want friends or not, I'm not sure if I'm a good enough friend to have friends. And I have trust issues, all of the friends I've ever had have either ditched me or betrayed me at some point.

You stole my life.