I can't take the chaos. No routine. Boxes everywhere. My husband says there is a plan, in his head. Try explaining the plan in his head to the kids who wander about feeling neglected watching their toys and posessions "vanish" as they sit mesmerized by the T.V.
The landlady will not return our deposit. She also wants us to get rid of the washer/dryer unit. Anyone out there in the Bronx wants a 2 year old stacked washer dryer unit? Free if you will come, uninstall it, and carry it out of the house UP the garden steps and to whatever moving vehicle you choose.
I'm allergic to dust. There is lots of dust in our house now.
What to eat? When to eat? Who to cook? Hubby did not plan activities of daily life into the "plan in his head". The 3 year old has decided "Why use the toilet if I can pee on the floor and Mom's too distracted to notice?"
I hate chaos. I need routine. I need something more definitive that a "plan in someone elses head"
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03 Jul 2010, 4:46 pm
