my ony friend i had fell out wit me over a guy

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kizzykat
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30 Jul 2010, 8:21 pm

yeah well there a networking site called bebo people may have heard of it and my friend caroline has really liked this guy for a long time and he sent me a friend request on bebo and i accepted it i didnt see anything wrong with that so she noticed and got annoyed cos he was a friend on my bebo so i asked her if she wanted me to unfriend him and she said no so anyway he hadnt been talking to her for a while and she was upset cos of this so i said to her do u want me to ask him why he wont speak to u n she said no at first then she said to me ask him so i did and he responded that he was only ooking for fun not a relationship etc so i told my friend that n then the next day she asked me if he had been talking to me snd i said no so i said to her ill set a message asking him what he is up to n see if he replys which he did about 2 hours later when she was in bed and then i got messages from her that morning saying that i was backstabbing her asking this guy wat he was up to n that n said i was to fire on in and cut her out from my life cos she doesnt need a backstabber in her life and then stopped speaking to me i have no idea what ive done wrong weve been friends for just under 20 years ive known her since she was 5yrs old and weve never fell out before did i do something wrong? i have no idea she wont even talk to me


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30 Jul 2010, 8:26 pm

has she always had such trust issues?


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30 Jul 2010, 8:31 pm

Seanmw wrote:
has she always had such trust issues?


well not with me i dont think x she smokes cannibis if that helps i knw that can make u paranoid x i wish she would just talk to me



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30 Jul 2010, 9:15 pm

Sounds like she keeps changing her mind :? . It doesn't look like you've done anythign wrong, certainly, not intentionally.

Hopefully she'll calm down soon.

Maybe it'd be best to not get involved wih stuff like this in future.



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31 Jul 2010, 2:19 pm

you guys are in your mid 20s? 8O

tell her to act her age?