I have friends who plan get togethers in advance by at least a week if they're not club related events from campus. We like japanese/asian market trips . If you find a groups of friends who do the same clubs & activities as you do when you get to college, just wait to see if anything is planned and have fun.
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Balance is needed within the universe, can be demonstrated in most/all concepts/things. Black/White, Good/Evil, etc.
All dependent upon your own perspective in your own form of existence, so trust your own gut and live the way YOU want/need to.