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zeldapsychology
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30 Jul 2010, 2:22 pm

I know I've mention this issue alot lately and in other topics I've made so first off sorry. Part of me wants to focus on studies and excited for it etc. With all my ideas I've mention to a few WP members I think I'll hit college out of the park (As in a homerun) so to speak. and yet the flip side of it once again the whole FB that friend "date night" and me not having friends/boyfriend (I think of this when reading her going out posts) I also suggested shopping on Black Friday (Hey I'm an Aspie that LIKES that environment when it is planned NOT your daily commute to Walmart.)

She said as I figured she'd be busy with family Thanksgiving&Black Friday. BOO! I really hope I can make some friends in college. Me and this friend were going to go to the movies this past Wed. but after seeing yet another "Oh I'll go do X with another friend" I texted "I'm busy" that day (I don't want to be second fiddle! You choose to hang out with these other friends yet you say you're busy when I ask.) :-( Perhaps I haven't grown up. :-( I miss the days me/her used to call each other see movies at the theater and she used to come over and we'd play with my action figures! :-( I want to focus on studies but want friends BUT don't want friends to distract FROM studying. AHHHH! It's nerve racking thinking about it. :-) (Sorry again.) :-)



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30 Jul 2010, 2:31 pm

I have friends who plan get togethers in advance by at least a week if they're not club related events from campus. We like japanese/asian market trips :D. If you find a groups of friends who do the same clubs & activities as you do when you get to college, just wait to see if anything is planned and have fun.


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30 Jul 2010, 2:53 pm

I'm only torn if he goes too rough.