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18 Sep 2010, 8:39 pm

i am really upset/ pissed off. my brother keeps calling me a ret*d and i can't take it anymore. we used to be friends, but he stopped being my friend because we got into a huge fight. we usually get mad at each other then foregive each other, but this was probably the biggest fight we've ever gotten into. anyway, he keeps on making fun of me whenever we see each other, and i keep telling him to stop, but he won't. then he shoves me and we get into a fight, and it is broken up by my father. he keeps on bothering me and i really don't know what to do



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18 Sep 2010, 9:15 pm

Try to avoid him when possible. Has your father said anything to your brother about the name calling?



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18 Sep 2010, 10:05 pm

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Try to avoid him when possible. Has your father said anything to your brother about the name calling?

he has, but my brother doesn't listen.



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18 Sep 2010, 10:23 pm

imbatshitcrazy wrote:
i am really upset/ pissed off. my brother keeps calling me a ret*d and i can't take it anymore. we used to be friends, but he stopped being my friend because we got into a huge fight. we usually get mad at each other then foregive each other, but this was probably the biggest fight we've ever gotten into. anyway, he keeps on making fun of me whenever we see each other, and i keep telling him to stop, but he won't. then he shoves me and we get into a fight, and it is broken up by my father. he keeps on bothering me and i really don't know what to do


Join the club dude, I'm the same way with my brother...

He always calls me a ret*d because of my autism (as well as anyone else with autism...) and he is always cruel and mean to everyone in my family... I would love to move out of my house, but I don't have enough money, no job, and no other place to live...

Big Brothers suck



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18 Sep 2010, 10:31 pm

BigJohnnyCool wrote:
imbatshitcrazy wrote:
i am really upset/ pissed off. my brother keeps calling me a ret*d and i can't take it anymore. we used to be friends, but he stopped being my friend because we got into a huge fight. we usually get mad at each other then foregive each other, but this was probably the biggest fight we've ever gotten into. anyway, he keeps on making fun of me whenever we see each other, and i keep telling him to stop, but he won't. then he shoves me and we get into a fight, and it is broken up by my father. he keeps on bothering me and i really don't know what to do


Join the club dude, I'm the same way with my brother...

He always calls me a ret*d because of my autism (as well as anyone else with autism...) and he is always cruel and mean to everyone in my family... I would love to move out of my house, but I don't have enough money, no job, and no other place to live...

Big Brothers suck


he is actually my younger brother



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18 Sep 2010, 10:51 pm

imbatshitcrazy wrote:
he is actually my younger brother


Looks like he needs to learn a little more discipline and respect...



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18 Sep 2010, 11:00 pm

BigJohnnyCool wrote:
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he is actually my younger brother


Looks like he needs to learn a little more discipline and respect...

exactly



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18 Sep 2010, 11:27 pm

My little sister used to be the same way towards me, when I was your age, and she was your brother's age. It seems that your brother needs to learn some respect.


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18 Sep 2010, 11:31 pm

sit him down and question him. He may find out that he is the ret*d and you are perfectly normal.



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19 Sep 2010, 8:10 am

SaNcheNuSS wrote:
sit him down and question him. He may find out that he is the ret*d and you are perfectly normal.

doubtful



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19 Sep 2010, 8:11 am

CockneyRebel wrote:
My little sister used to be the same way towards me, when I was your age, and she was your brother's age. It seems that your brother needs to learn some respect.

exactly. fyi my brother is 14.



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19 Sep 2010, 9:09 am

UPDATE: my brother started bothering me this morning, i told him to shut up, he called be a ret*d. he also said he supported Autism Speaks and that autism needed to be cured



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19 Sep 2010, 10:32 am

Next time he starts that crapola, stay totally cold and point out that he's doing nothing but show off his own immaturity and lack of dignity, and if he were a man at all he'd be self confident enough not to feel the need to put others down.


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19 Sep 2010, 1:00 pm

mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
Next time he starts that crapola, stay totally cold and point out that he's doing nothing but show off his own immaturity and lack of dignity, and if he were a man at all he'd be self confident enough not to feel the need to put others down.

already tried that, didn't work



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20 Sep 2010, 6:31 am

guys, seriously help me out. i really am upset by this.



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20 Sep 2010, 1:23 pm

Your father should tell your brother to stop doing this.

Why hasn't he?