I am thinking of

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Giving up on the idea of trying to lead a normal, everyday kind of life. I have strong doubts that I will ever find a partner, let alone be able to keep the relationship up to a level where both my partner and I are happy. I am getting tired of trying to fit in socially everywhere. I think if I manage to put all of that nonsense behind me, I'll have far more energy to focus on things I am interested in. Like going to school and getting a few degrees.

I don't believe in love, or "soul mates", "the one", "blah blah blah" and so on. That is all nonsense. There are some people who are more compatible than others, but it's not magical love. And I doubt I'll ever find it myself. So why bother?

I think it'll be a lot of work, but I'll be a lot more happy.

I think you have a pragmatic view of life.

I don't believe this stuff either, if it happens then it happens, if it doesn't the it doesn't.
I can not be the clingy woman needs someone to tell me what to do, and I certainly don't need some guy hovering all the time wanting me to control him or him to control me.