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08 Nov 2010, 12:57 am

there, i feel better 8)

stupid parents. im 23 and i still think they dont know sh*t. i thought i was supposed to start liking them again by now? :lol:


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08 Nov 2010, 1:57 am

sometimes one doesn't appreciate one's parents 'till they are long gone.



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08 Nov 2010, 3:09 am

dont get me wrong, ive been missing mine since i moved out of home

mum just gets under my skin with her one-sidedness. i'll have forgiven her by tomorrow when she calls for computer help or i wnt to tell her bout my horse

i have learned that if i vent elsewhere, people im frustrated with wont cop more then they really deserve


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08 Nov 2010, 10:11 am

Jaz1787 wrote:
dont get me wrong, ive been missing mine since i moved out of home

mum just gets under my skin with her one-sidedness. i'll have forgiven her by tomorrow when she calls for computer help or i wnt to tell her bout my horse

i have learned that if i vent elsewhere, people im frustrated with wont cop more then they really deserve


One-sidedness?! She's probably aspie!! Don't hate your parents for their quirky personalities. Here's a list of things to hate parents for: They prostituted you, molested or raped you, starved you, spit on you and beat you without reason, sold you for drugs, used you an an excuse for their infidelities or crimes, knowingly left you to perverts, didn't educate you or cloth you, emotionally tortured you, competed with you, slept with your friends or lovers, maimed or blinded you, made you feel that you were NOTHING, laughed at your failure or physical deformity, stole your money, talked bad about you without reason, exposed your body in public, destroyed your potential, demanded that you support them and never marry, tried to kill you, blamed you for their failures, tried to have a sexual relationship with you, prostituted themself and made you watch, had one really bad parent while the good one looked the other way ... Anybody want to add anything??



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08 Nov 2010, 4:18 pm

The problem is that parents and siblings are humans who can and often do grate on you and disappoint or hurt you BUT are not normal people you can move away from if they grate etc.

About the same as a cell mate, both of you with life sentences.

Odds are you grate almost as much.

No time limit on becoming bearable.

I have tended to focus on other things.



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08 Nov 2010, 6:48 pm

hey guys

i did kinda come over as bit of brat there hey?

mum doesnt seem like the aspie type. she gets pretty condescending at times, which i cant cant stand

and who said anything about HATE??? you can love someone and still get mad at them? if i didnt, would i be on here venting? no, id be off making her miserable by ranting and raving at her instead

ive always found the best way to work with mum has been to say "yes mum" and then think whatever i want.

she gets under my skin, and lately ive been really touchy. better here then at her, she doesnt deserve it and wouldnt understand anyway.


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