I give up.

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I can't seem to fit in anywhere.

Apparently i'm "annoying" to just about eveyone on the internet, so I totally give up on it. F*ck them.
The internet is one of the most horrible places that ever exixted. Gutless people take advantage of it, and say and do horrible things they are to f*cking wimpy to do in real life.

Nice knowing you.

The computer seems more like one person acting like many different text things anyways, also who knows what really is on the other end. Who knows the mentality!


Who is wimpy, how many push ups do you do a day lady?

hooyaa


Someone try and get her in a good mood again, this seems violitile.

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You've never annoyed me, nor have I seen you doing anything annoying to others.

You can say anything on the internet and 50 people will make it their goal in life to destroy you.

I try and laugh at people that get angry at me.

You dont annoy me. I have been trying to find some common ground to talk about... If only I had played zelda before I mite have more to talk about.

Oh just out of interest what interests you about space? The share massivness of the universe? the fact that there could be millions of different unimaginable life forms on other planets going about there daily lives perhaps way more advance than humans? Sorry thats just one of the things that interests me about space interested to hear what interests you.

Anyway on topic cheer up. Im not here to annoy you.

I think I just saw the thread that inspired this.

Don't take this the wrong way, but it's hilarious that they even bothered mentioning you.


If this sort of thing happens often which it almost certainly does I don't blame you for getting upset.

What are you talking about? It has nothing to do with anyone that has come within an inch to anything AS related.
If you mean that stupid thing Peter Mckenzie wrote, i've read it and I don't care.



I don't want that, infact, I would HATE it. I'm not that sort of person. I just posted here to vent my utter annoyance.

I will be a lot less active on the net from now on.

In my personal experience, there are many idiots on the internet, but also people genuinely worth knowing, and thus I would not dismiss the whole net as rubbish. I think the net requires a lot of selective reading and selective participation in order to get the most benefit or enjoyment from it.

I don't know....I kind of like how you write in a short, sharp way that gets straight to the point.
I wish people would do that in real life. It would make a refreshing change.

Ok - you're scaring me, hale_bopp.

I gave up trying to fit in when I was about seven. I tried again when I was about 9 - but the effort was doomed. Now I'm more content more of the time doing my own thing and not fitting in. Yeah the internet is a good place for finding cowards and bullies. It is also a great place for finding like minded people. It's the tool not the problem. Use it to your best advantage.

I like your posts.

I'm also good at being annoying. Maybe we (everyone) could have a contest to decide who can be the most annoying. Then again, maybe not.

I too am content doing my own thing and not trying to fit in. Actually I do make some of an effort to fit in, but I do not see a reason for making it a priority or overwhelming concern.

Also I think that being overly concerned about fitting in could potentially cause problems. In order for any person to truly fit in, they probably have to sacrifice their individuality and independence from the group, and submit to mob-thinking. This is not a healthy thing to do. I think, hale_bopp, you are unwilling and too strong-willed to sacrifice your individuality and will and free-thinking in order to fit in -- this is a GOOD thing.


Well said.

I just finished working two doubles back to back (36 hours in two days), so I haven't been on for 3-4 days. I think it helps to take a week away from here every now and then. I mostly use this as an escape, a place for light conversation and a place to relax. There will always be a few who take themselves too seriously, enjoy picking you apart, and overanalyzing you. (I get enough of that in real life, don't need it here) As you said they're usually the ones who are wimpy in real life and their only means to sound intelligent or important is in the internet. Don't let them get to you, that's their purpose. If they belittle you, they feel big. Most on here aren't like that, so stick around for them and for yourself. I'd hate to see you go.

Things need balance. I think what hale_bopp is getting at is she doesnt feel she fits in at all. like a common ground or experiences or interest probably just the whole way of thinking. I find that it is hard to communicate our ideas properly in any situation and I find it even harder to do so. The fact is i could run into some one who thinks almost exactly like me and never know after just talking to them a bit on the net.

Anyway about the mob thinking that seems to be a general way of how society seems to work for people to fit in, Every one has to act and do the same things so they can be a "Individual" i find that concept werid. I think that a certian ammount of come ground with other people is needed to not feel so "alien". I find the problem my self some times I want to find some one to ask for advice that is on the same wave length as me and some times I can't. It is really stressful when you need some one to talk to to get your mind going or just to ask advice from.

One of my coping mecanisms is my interests I try to find others with similur interests and talk about them so i have a little bit of socialising instead of struggling talking about some other area and stressing out or getting deeply involved in my interest and losing touch with my life.

Hope you cheer up soon hale_bopp. We are not all bad. Even if things may seem that way.

Let's just all get along. We can all get along. The Internet is not a structured place. Now matter how much we want it to be, it simply isn't. There are all sorts of people on the Internet. Groups like this are areas where we who have a common interest, being that we have asperger's or a similar condition, so let's just make the best of it.

- Ray M -

You don't annoy me, at all. I find your direct style very charming.