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CaptainTrips222
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26 Nov 2010, 3:33 pm

This has been the bane of my life. I can't let things go, and feel better only once I've had another's perspective. I wish I could finally grow out of this, but I don't know how I'll be able to.



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26 Nov 2010, 4:04 pm

Get them clear for yourself, handle them as far as you can. Have peace with what is left, treat it further if you are able.

Or get help.


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26 Nov 2010, 4:11 pm

I feel the need to talk about my problems, and finding people who are willing to listen makes a big difference.


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26 Nov 2010, 4:14 pm

Everyone's like this, the ones who aren't are abnormal.



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26 Nov 2010, 4:19 pm

I don't talk about my problems, it never solved anything and it made me feel even more sad


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26 Nov 2010, 5:04 pm

So do I, and that's true for many people. Talking about your problems can be a good thing if the person you're talking to understands or is at least a good listener.
I go to CBT for a phobia I have, and I like talking to the psychologist because I can tell her everything, really I have to or else I can't get sorted. Not even my own mum knows what goes on in my head half the time.


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26 Nov 2010, 7:38 pm

I often am afraid of telling people about my problems, for fear of mockery I guess, but as soon as someone asks me it all spills out.



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26 Nov 2010, 9:49 pm

Yes, venting helps me deal with my problems so I'm not overwhelmed & determine who I can really trust.


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