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Secret_Helper
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07 Dec 2010, 10:53 pm

It is basically it. Ironically i am saying somethin but it is hard for me to be around with new people like what im doin here online.

any advice?



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07 Dec 2010, 11:11 pm

Have some general topic on hand: Weather, news, politics, sports, etc.
Also some of your own interests, his/her interests.

Pick up from there, ask questions on the others' point of view, give your point of view and open answers/questions (gives spaces to ask questions/gives answers on for other people).

Here is a link on open and closed questions:
http://changingminds.org/techniques/que ... stions.htm

There are two or more in a dialog, so to keep the conversation running all have to do some effort or atleast two.

Taking initiative helps the conversation along but give space for others to do so to in the silences in-between and between topics for others to file in.

All I can think off at the moment, but I am not the only one in this discussion :wink:. So, I'll give space for other people to answer some more or comment on mine.

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07 Dec 2010, 11:22 pm

@ Wallourdes, thanks, it is basically that i havent visited this site for almost a week, i was nervous about thinking if my posts are not that good to this site.

that link u gave me it kind of reminds me of my english class in school last year. :p

so again thanks. :)



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08 Dec 2010, 6:11 am

Secret_Helper wrote:
@ Wallourdes, thanks, it is basically that i havent visited this site for almost a week, i was nervous about thinking if my posts are not that good to this site.

that link u gave me it kind of reminds me of my english class in school last year. :p

so again thanks. :)


Your posts are always welcomed to this site! Post anything you'd like! The more you tell us about yourself the better.



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08 Dec 2010, 5:34 pm

SaNcheNuSS wrote:
Secret_Helper wrote:
@ Wallourdes, thanks, it is basically that i havent visited this site for almost a week, i was nervous about thinking if my posts are not that good to this site.

that link u gave me it kind of reminds me of my english class in school last year. :p

so again thanks. :)


Your posts are always welcomed to this site! Post anything you'd like! The more you tell us about yourself the better.


I don't know for certain if this comment was aimed to Secret_Helper or me, but thank you anyway :D


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