Sibling(s) taking my medication

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I've been taking Adderall and then tried Vyvanse. My doctor took me off them both b/c he wanted me to gain weight back, so the bottles have been in the medicine cabinet without use for a couple weeks. I recently looked at them and found that most of the pills in the Adderall bottle were missing. My brother has asked me several times for them and I've refused. This time he didn't even ask me, just took at least four of them. He says he only took four of them, but there are a lot more missing than that. So i took them to my room and tucked them into the back of a drawer. Today he went to the cabinet and didn't find them there so he asked me again today for one, saying he had a lot to get done. This is the afternoon.

I know he has some kind of ADD and can use help, but I know he takes other drugs. I know he's even taken cocaine more than once and might still be. And he smokes and drinks. I used to flat out refuse, but I'm afraid of him now because he came home on cocaine angry one night and made a hole in my bedroom door with his fist. So i gave it to him today.

but i asked him why there were more missing than just four, and he told me he didn't know and to ask my sister. I wouldn't think my sister would do that, but I didn't think my brother would take cocaine or take any of my medication without asking me. I don't know what to believe. Just sort of in awe...are my siblings really stealing my medication? Is this common? Do I just not do anything about it? (my parents are useless in this. they can't tell them to stop doing anything. they don't listen)

If your parents are unwilling to intervene then you should involve the police.

Sounds like drug addict behavior to me too. It's up to you if you want to get as extreme as calling the police, especially considering that your parents seem to be disinterested in his behavior. That could open up a can of worms you'd rather not deal with at this point. Depending on your age, I'd say the best course of action is to lay low and keep your meds out of his grasp until you can get to a safer space. Sounds like he needs more help than you are capable of handling (which is not to say you aren't capable, just that ANYONE is incapable of helping a drug addict unless they actually want to stop).

Personally, I would not call the police. They will not understand the dynamics of the situation, they'll assume that your parents care and depending on the age of you and your siblings (under 18) might call child protective services if they believe your parents are "facilitating" drug use at home.

The most simple solution is to get rid of your Adderall, or hide it somewhere that your brother can't possibly get to (give it back to the doctor, throw it into a garbage at the bus stop, leave it at a friend's house, hide it in your parents' closet, or in your locker at school).

And if your parents won't listen, maybe you should talk to a teacher, adult friend or another relative about your brother's substance use issues. That's only if you're up to it - it is not your responsibility.

Hope this helps!