I'm in a spot of trouble....

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i cant seem to please my parents though work or when mom gets mad, i naturaly pick up peoples feelings, so i get mad. but (this is a exact quote said by mom) "you cant get mad, i can", theres so much more to this story, but ill make it short with that.

now thet're kicking me asap....a week before christmas. and i need to find a place to stay. heres the problem they dont get, ITS A WEEK BEFORE CHRISTMAS!! !! ! people have they're own plans, why would they take me in. im ready to cry from depression and im to logical to kill my self to state rigtht off the top, but i now see why people kill them selves. if yyour own home doesn't make you feel safe, then what do you have left? i do mean this serously, not just "dur hur hur, im suicidle" im not, im to logical, as stated before, i've been homeless, its no life...but im running out of options.

help? im kinda desprate for any ideas.....ask for more info if you wish

Why don't you humble yourself to your parents? Ask them what they want you to do and do it.

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My mom also threatened to kick me out.. with AS difficulties.. the situation is difficult. I'd take the advice posted and humble yourself, apologize, plead, whatever. Swallow your pride, then start saving money so you don't have to ever rely on them for support or shelter ever again.

I hate to be real but the whole "you can't get mad, but I can" is pretty general with parents. Especially in certain context, I.E. a parent can cuss, but if a kid does its disrespectful. Same thing with anger in certain households. I personally HATE my mom, but you can only go so far. They did raise, provide and take care of you (I hope)

If that doesn't work.. I don't know what to say... I've looked for homeless shelters myself because of a similar situation, lucky it never came to that.

I wish you luck man, I wouldn't waste any time until this situation is resolved, if you do get kicked out.. seriously as I did, look for any free housing, shelters, look into getting emancipated, heck.. see if you can borrow money and get a place.

Your best bet tho is to plead with your parents.. If you need a year to get yourself together, ask for a year. If you think it can be resolved by faking an apology, do so. I feel as you say in that there is more to the story, you should feel free to post that if you think it'll help allow us to help you.

they are never satisfied with anny amount of work, i've humbled my self lower than dirt and i have been homeless...it was intresting....nit what i want to repeat

find a homeless shelter. or try to get into a halfway house. or perhaps go to a hospital and say your suicidal then they may put you in a mental ward for a while.i know it is not perfect but it is better then being homeless. you have shelter and food and your safe.

if i were you i would pick the hospital option. then they may help you find resources after your discharged.

I am so sorry your in this situation. i wish i could be of more help but i dont know what to do. do you have any money to rent a room for a small fee? that's what i did when i got kicked out.

I am so truly sorry i wish i could do something but i dont know what to do. but god! that is a horrible situation your in!

please,,, take care, stay warm, and be safe! I'll pray for you.

I agree. It will be scary to put yourself into "the system" but in the long run it might be the best thing to do.
They can find you somewhere to live and how to get government subsidies etc. They can assist you to study or find a job.