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so i am not friends with my friend gerri now. i cant seem to be myself and maintain friendships. i have to take there crap but then i finally stick up for myself i get bitched out and then ditched as a friend.

she posted crap about me on my face book page and wouldn't return my calls so i posted my response on my face-book wall. I know it was wrong and immature but i felt angry. and i was getting sick of having to be nice when she kept treating me like crap!.


so now she is not my friend anymore.

i want to be friends with my old friend that i found on face book. but if i am myself i worry i will scare her away by being all needy and clingy and over intense. should i be myself or act indifferent to being her friend again? because i know that's what normal people do.

but i want to be myself. and my theory is if she runs away then she wasn't a good friend for me. and i right or wrong?


need advice please! i know you guys love me! wrong planet people are my real friends!

Actually i decided i will be myself to everyone. If they like me, they like me, if they dont, I dont need them in my life.

Posted it on my wall too. Cause I'm just like that.

I think that you're doing the right thing.

I'm gonna be fully myself from now on.

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I think i may have been to honest when leaving a voicemail on gerri phone. i wasn't that mean. i told her i wanted her to have a nice life. but i feel i was too honest and my words may have hurt her more then i intended to. I told her she had no real friends. and i told her that i am better off without her.

I did it all nicely but i feel i shouldn't have told her all that. I dont know how to remedy the situation to make sure she is ok.

That person sounds horrible.. I say let her go. I wouldn't try to contact her again.

You'll make better friends in the future.. it never feels good to move on from old friends but its better for you in the end!

thanks hale_bopp and Vigilans !

I think that you should just let her go, now. She seems like a very nasty person. I know from my past experience here, to just let nasty people go. Another piece of advice is not to get so depressed, angry and rebellious that you forget who you are. I'm lucky that I found myself, again.

My friend casey on face book seems not to want to talk to me much. she also said she dosent think we can be as close as we used to be. which is sad. i dont know why people push me out of there lives and never let me back in?.

its like you make one mistake and they are gone for good. gerri is the only person who didn't do that.

me and casey were like family, we were gonna live together and be best friends forever. and how can that all be thrown away?

why does everyone say your best friends forever but drop you like a hat when the going gets tough?

I mean she stuck with me through my psycotic episode when i went truly crazy. so why cant she forgive me for something neither of us can remember so we be friend like we used to be?

what do i do that pushes everyone away?