Why Live If This Keeps Happening?

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Allan
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03 Jan 2011, 12:34 am

There's this girl I like and I asked a peer to help and he "gave" me her number and I started texting her. Then it turns out the peer was using a fake number and pretending to be the girl. This has been done to me twice before and the thing is that I really felt like things were going to get better. I just want to curl up in a corner and cry until I die.



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03 Jan 2011, 12:39 am

Allan wrote:
There's this girl I like and I asked a peer to help and he "gave" me her number and I started texting her. Then it turns out the peer was using a fake number and pretending to be the girl. This has been done to me twice before and the thing is that I really felt like things were going to get better. I just want to curl up in a corner and cry until I die.
Don't trust people like that. Be wary. If you like a girl, try and be friends with her. Don't worry, things will get better. Maybe not when you want it, but it will happen.



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03 Jan 2011, 12:51 am

Sorry that happend to you. People can be cruel sometimes. The teen years can be tough, especially for people like us. Hang in there. It can and will get better.



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03 Jan 2011, 1:31 am

You can't rely on other people to help you get a girlfriend. The best thing you can do is try to interact with her and develop a friendship with her.


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03 Jan 2011, 1:35 am

That is just horrible. I'm so sorry this happened to you.



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03 Jan 2011, 1:53 am

It's my fault. This has happened in 08 09 and now 11. I don't even know why I bother with this anymore.



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03 Jan 2011, 2:06 am

Man, you're only 16, way too young to be having hopeless thoughts like that. You really have no idea how much things are going to change once you get out of high school.


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03 Jan 2011, 12:46 pm

Ah_Q wrote:
Man, you're only 16, way too young to be having hopeless thoughts like that. You really have no idea how much things are going to change once you get out of high school.


Great advise. :)


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03 Jan 2011, 4:37 pm

Just talk to the girl. It can be hard but it's worth it. Don't trust the other idiots.

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04 Jan 2011, 2:04 am

I just ended up sending her a message on Facebook.......and she texted me!! !! !! !! !!(it's actually her this time) but I 1.don't know what to say to keep the conversation going. and 2. HAVE TO WAIT TWO WEEKS BEFORE ASKING HER OUT! If only I could tell her how I feel about her.



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04 Jan 2011, 4:33 am

Allan wrote:
There's this girl I like and I asked a peer to help and he "gave" me her number and I started texting her. Then it turns out the peer was using a fake number and pretending to be the girl. This has been done to me twice before and the thing is that I really felt like things were going to get better. I just want to curl up in a corner and cry until I die.


Well I would write the "peers" number on toilet walls advertising him as a gay prostitute. :twisted:



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08 Jan 2011, 9:59 am

Allan wrote:
There's this girl I like and I asked a peer to help and he "gave" me her number and I started texting her. Then it turns out the peer was using a fake number and pretending to be the girl. This has been done to me twice before and the thing is that I really felt like things were going to get better. I just want to curl up in a corner and cry until I die.


haha. don't worry about this stuff bud. This happens to everyone. A lot of people down here, especially some of the younger NT's are dumb and ignorant and they don't know what they are doing. They seriously don't know what they are doing, so don't take it too personal. You are one of the good ones. You will have plenty of girls, trust me. Just learn to find the right ones.



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09 Jan 2011, 11:30 am

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Allan wrote:
There's this girl I like and I asked a peer to help and he "gave" me her number and I started texting her. Then it turns out the peer was using a fake number and pretending to be the girl. This has been done to me twice before and the thing is that I really felt like things were going to get better. I just want to curl up in a corner and cry until I die.


haha. don't worry about this stuff bud. This happens to everyone. A lot of people down here, especially some of the younger NT's are dumb and ignorant and they don't know what they are doing. They seriously don't know what they are doing, so don't take it too personal. You are one of the good ones. You will have plenty of girls, trust me. Just learn to find the right ones.


At this point i heavily doubt i will. Pretty much every girl looks at me like I'm a weirdo.



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09 Jan 2011, 12:02 pm

I'm sorry this crap happened to you. But it does get better. Somewhere along the line most people grow up and stop this petty s**t.

I have no dating advice for you. Asking me for relationship advice is like asking a worm to bark like a dog. I just squirm around and nothing comes out.


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09 Jan 2011, 12:55 pm

What a horrible person. I'm sorry this happened to you.

Next time, maybe only accept people's numbers if they give them to you personally, or ring them up to see if the right person answers.

Bit lame that he finds the same joke funny 3rd time round. His friends are gonna find it a bit boring when he tries gloating.