No girl would ever go out with me

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Check out the post I made in another thread

On top that I am pretty much the antithesis of what a girl/women would want in a man. I'm weak, I'm a little on the feminine side, I'm uninteresting, boring, can't carry a conversation, annoying to hang out with for more than a few hours. I'm jobless, I can't drive, and since I have such a low education, I have no prospect for any good jobs or any future.

I have no talents or skills to attract a woman/girl; I can't draw, I'm not funny, I can't sing, I can't play any instruments, and I suck at all sports.

Women/Girls want someone who is strong, that can protect them, and provide for them. Someone that they're proud of and can go brag to their friends about. I am not that and never will be. Who would to be seen talking to me in public let alone going out on a date.

I've never even kissed a girl. I'm pathetic, and is destined to spend the rest my life alone.

There is no such thing as a "pathetic" person. Those are just labels that people apply to other people or themselves and there is no reason you have to accept that label and in turn think of yourself as "pathetic".

And not all girls want someone they can brag about that is just a general truth, you can find plenty of girls like you... trust me, from the description of yourself I've met them before... except for the bath taking, you need to start bathing... just saying... I can almost smell you through the internet

But seriously though, don't let society or social standards get you down, they are meaningless.

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Some women do not look for a rich, successful, outwardly attractive man. Some of them may be searching for somebody who gives them emotional support and the feeling of being "needed". In some cases it can even become more obvious with the woman becoming a kind of surrogate "mother" for the man, trying to help him develop his talents and to find his place in the world. It may sound weird, but some women actually enjoy the idea that they might guide their partner and improve him.
Of course, some men find it irritating to be treated in this way, but for somebody on the spectrum it may be just the kind of partner they need.

I'd suggest that you try to improve in those areas where you perceive obvious, but amendable shortcomings in yourself (personal hygiene and a more positive self-image come to mind readily) and then try to find a woman who is both able and willing to help and guide her partner. Somebody like that may be difficult to find if you are shy towards people you've never met before, but maybe there is some kind of website or local gathering where you might make contact with somebody. It may be helpful to take a look at the older women in your town/city, the ones who are old enough to have children, but who don't actually have any (this may actually include women of your own age). Those may be more inclined to help their partner develop.

Just don't give up like that. Work on yourself and give the female half of humanity some chances to notice you.

Just warning you guys, MR20 feeds on drama and rejects all advice.

Smile!

You can start doing something about it by taking daily showers and finishing school.

Its a start.

I feel so sorry for you MR20.

My bathroom is rat infested and I've struggled with motivation to bathe since I was young if I'm not going anywhere. No one has a car or can drive in my household, and since we live off crazy checks and social security, I don't think we'd have extra money for school.

How are they meaningless? Society and social standards, how you're looked at by other people and compared to other people go hand and hand with self-esteem. No one respects a person that is uneducated, dumb, ret*d, or has mental problems. No one wants to be around at person that stinks, is annoying, boring, and uninteresting.

No one respects or wants to hang out with a person that spends most of his time watching anime and playing video games.

It does matter, I am pathetic. It's true.

if it mattered you'd do something about it, instead you're trolling again

If you've got extra money for video games, you've got extra money for some rat poison and school.

kill the rats and plug the holes in the walls or whatever they've been coming in through? Get a cat?

You are pathetic. You wanna know why? Because you do nothing about your problems. You complain, complain, complain but never attempt to change. You sit on your ass essentially trolling us and push away any attempt to help you.

So, yes, you are pathetic. As I said in your other thread, grow up.

I'm not trolling

I don't think I have any money for a cat. And there are too many wholes in my house to plug them all.

Sell your video games and system for money. And by the way? You have internet. So you can't be very poor.