Falling out of liking/loving someone

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Why is it so hard for people to believe that you can fall out of liking/loving someone, yet they hold on to the idea and even celebrate the "fact" that you can just be hit with a freight train of feelings and instantly love someone?

long story short, I girl I have been seeing recently apparently misinterpreted what I said a few nights ago as us getting back together and starting up a serious relationship together. At the end of this long talk she just kept asking why, what it is SHE did wrong. She would not accept the fact that I just don't like her like that anymore. She ask me to explain myself and I couldn't and just got frustrated and angry as she just kept asking. Anyone else just fall out of love with someone? It truly has nothing to do with her I just don't feel the same way i did a few months ago about her why is that so hard for people to understand, people change, you don't HAVE to do something wrong for relationship to end sometimes they just aren't mean to last for ever and they end.

I think you didn't love her in the first place. You shouldn't start a relationship if you aren't sure of your feelings toward the other person, otherwise you are going to breack someone's heart. But don't worry too much, as soon as she fall in love with another person she'll forget you completely and forever.

I agree, I wasn't head over heels in love with her, but I was attracted to her because of certain personality traits I perceived she had. I later found out that she didn't have them. From there my interested waned, although I let her know all this is the beginning and she agreed with me. Maybe my definition of said attributes was grossly different then hers?

A lot depends on how old you are. If yours is a teenager's love story, don't worry too much. I guess it didn't last a lot of time. I think she'll survive without you and maybe she understood how to recognize when people is really in love with you or not in the first place.

I had a couple friends we actually hung out a lot, and this other chick started hanging out with us and she got one of my friends in trouble by having him put stuff she wanted to sell to take to a pawn shop under his name......turns out it was stuff she stole from her parents so my friend and her got in trouble for that and where going to court over it and s**t. I mean personally I think my friend should have told them exactly what happened so he did not have to take the fall. Then she ended up dating the other friend and well in my opinion she was way to possesive and kinda treated him like crap. Then she started trying to make it look like I was addicted to drugs or whatever when she was the one acting like an addict.

So yeah I don't talk to any of them anymore, the connection I had with these two dudes pretty much was killed by her......and now I don't really want to talk to or see either of them again.