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09 Sep 2011, 7:48 pm

and if you can help, it would be nice.


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09 Sep 2011, 7:49 pm

How exactly?



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09 Sep 2011, 7:52 pm

whats wrong chickenpiee?



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09 Sep 2011, 7:59 pm

I just feel awful. Last night there was this huge celebration in the city with 100,000 people and I didnt get invited by anyone to it. So I watched it in TV.

And now today I wish now I had someone to go somewhere with, it is really nice weather.


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09 Sep 2011, 8:05 pm

i usually feel like that on NYE, i can see the london fireworks out my window and hear people celebrating outside and i'm just indoors all aloney. my least favourite time of year ever.
And on sunny weekends i often get a bit sad i don't have someone i can just randomly do things i want to do with.

Maybe you could go for a walk anyway? just getting out is sometimes enough to perk me up abit

hope you feel better soon(:



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09 Sep 2011, 8:06 pm

zen_mistress wrote:
I just feel awful. Last night there was this huge celebration in the city with 100,000 people and I didnt get invited by anyone to it. So I watched it in TV.

And now today I wish now I had someone to go somewhere with, it is really nice weather.


you should venture out yourself and take a book. unless the party has spilled over to today. in which case, go yourself without the book


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09 Sep 2011, 8:34 pm

OneStepBeyond wrote:
i usually feel like that on NYE, i can see the london fireworks out my window and hear people celebrating outside and i'm just indoors all aloney. my least favourite time of year ever.
And on sunny weekends i often get a bit sad i don't have someone i can just randomly do things i want to do with.

Maybe you could go for a walk anyway? just getting out is sometimes enough to perk me up abit

hope you feel better soon(:


Yeah, I dont really know if I want to go out by myself, but it looks like I will be doing that because I dont want to sit here at home by myself.

I hope you find someone soon who you can do stuff with.


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09 Sep 2011, 8:35 pm

bucephalus wrote:
zen_mistress wrote:
I just feel awful. Last night there was this huge celebration in the city with 100,000 people and I didnt get invited by anyone to it. So I watched it in TV.

And now today I wish now I had someone to go somewhere with, it is really nice weather.


you should venture out yourself and take a book. unless the party has spilled over to today. in which case, go yourself without the book


Thank you. I will probably go shopping I guess. Anyway thanks for the reply...


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09 Sep 2011, 9:01 pm

Hey Zen Mistress!

Lately I've been having lots of problems with isolation as well--caught between not wanting to be around people and getting tired of being by myself.

My only advice is: keep yourself busy--reading, even watching a movie, exercise is marvelous...

Hope you feel better soon!

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09 Sep 2011, 9:30 pm

Thanks David. I wish you lived near me, then I would be able to meet up with you and solve this isolation problem a little.

I feel a little better, people on Facebook have said nice things to me. Perhaps my life will get better.


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09 Sep 2011, 10:21 pm

No problem Zen Mistress!

If I did live nearby and we were able to meet-up, I'm guessing a bottle of red-wine would be involved! :D

I'm glad you feel a little better, and I'm sure your life will get better!

[And feel free to PM me if you ever need someone to talk to or anything! Oh, and I like your avatar!]

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10 Sep 2011, 4:04 am

Yes, red wine would be a nice idea. Shiraz preferably, or Merlot perhaps.

Thanks, the avatar is from these Astronomy Picture of the day widget on my igoogle page.

Thanks for the offer to PM, I will take you up on that : ) .


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