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21 Sep 2011, 8:51 pm

I just put my fist through my glass window and didn't feel a thing...I"m still angry... I don't even know why.



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21 Sep 2011, 10:51 pm

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22 Sep 2011, 12:27 am

first things first. take care of your hand - stitches for deep cuts, splints for broken bones, ice for bruises. see a doc if you aren't absolutely sure you don't need one.

what has been going on with you lately? could this be something that has been simmering and just boiled over?



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22 Sep 2011, 4:45 am

cathylynn wrote:
first things first. take care of your hand - stitches for deep cuts, splints for broken bones, ice for bruises. see a doc if you aren't absolutely sure you don't need one.

what has been going on with you lately? could this be something that has been simmering and just boiled over?
almost nothing really just going back in forth from school and home..I don't have a car and I'm being dragged around by family members to school its pissing me off. I have to wake up 4 hours before I have class. :/



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22 Sep 2011, 5:25 am

You're angry for a reason then. Perhaps it seems like a small thing, but they might part of a larger pattern. Anyway, anger is anger.

Perhaps take some steps to being more independent... is it possible to walk, cycle or take public transport to school?


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22 Sep 2011, 5:29 am

Moog wrote:
You're angry for a reason then. Perhaps it seems like a small thing, but they might part of a larger pattern. Anyway, anger is anger.

Perhaps take some steps to being more independent... is it possible to walk, cycle or take public transport to school?
no, I won't be able to get insurance for about a year...that's what my dad's telling me and he tends to lie all the time..its pissing me off. it makes me want to just drop out, I hate being seen dropped off by my grand mother or sister it makes me feel pathetic.



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22 Sep 2011, 11:02 am

Sextaesada wrote:
Moog wrote:
You're angry for a reason then. Perhaps it seems like a small thing, but they might part of a larger pattern. Anyway, anger is anger.

Perhaps take some steps to being more independent... is it possible to walk, cycle or take public transport to school?
no, I won't be able to get insurance for about a year...that's what my dad's telling me and he tends to lie all the time..its pissing me off. it makes me want to just drop out, I hate being seen dropped off by my grand mother or sister it makes me feel pathetic.


Why would you need insurance to walk or ride a bus to school?



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23 Sep 2011, 1:57 am

diniesaur wrote:
Sextaesada wrote:
Moog wrote:
You're angry for a reason then. Perhaps it seems like a small thing, but they might part of a larger pattern. Anyway, anger is anger.

Perhaps take some steps to being more independent... is it possible to walk, cycle or take public transport to school?
no, I won't be able to get insurance for about a year...that's what my dad's telling me and he tends to lie all the time..its pissing me off. it makes me want to just drop out, I hate being seen dropped off by my grand mother or sister it makes me feel pathetic.


Why would you need insurance to walk or ride a bus to school?
I don't I live in a rural area, there are no buses. also theres no way I can walk there, its atleast 20 minutes by car...which would be even longer walking with my art supplies thats not going to happen I would die.



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24 Sep 2011, 2:17 am

embarassment is felt deeply when you're a teenager, but it's not a good enough reason to drop out of school, something that will affect you for the rest of you life in a very negative way.



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24 Sep 2011, 7:31 am

Sounds to me like your frustrated. and focusing on the negative aspect (being driven around, extra time,... )

Sometimes we have to endure a bit of pain and have some patience in order to get what we want.

May I suggest, that you show your frustration in art instead?, What media do you like?....glass window will not be accepted as an answer .. :D .

Don't give up art svhool.....It is what you want to do, right....
and please don't jepordize your hand(s) again, they come in handy for art..

I have been a wood and metal craftsman for 20+yrs, I still have my sight because I wear saftey glass's. All I have created wouldn't of been possible without it.