HELP ASAP - HUMAN INTERACTION ANXIETY CORNUCOPIA ! !! !!

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As some of you know, I had a suicide attempt a while ago but in the same thread I explained how I actually got a new sight on life and a new will. I have actually bounced back pretty well,

Actually right now I am having a conversation with this NT guy and I am having a lot of trouble keeping the conversation on , I like him, indeed I am hyperventilating, he is über cute and smart and he is so cool, and he likes some awsome bands I do aswell

BUT I AM RUNNING OUT OF ----- SMOOTHNESS ----- HEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLPPPP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

People I am sweating bullets here, he just told me his interest in me is growing exponetially
---HELP!! !!

PeeEEEeeeEEEeeeooOOOooOOooOple, I am so nervous I feel like a silly thirteen yo school girl giggling in anxiety from how much I like him, we are communicating through writing but I am so nervous ! !! !! !!

If you are having an anxiety attack, try breathing into a paper bag. This will increase co2 in your system and stop the effects of hyperventilation.

Like hale_bopp said, the best thing you can do is calm down and focus. It's a mind-over-matter thing.

First off: Be cool.

You need to find common ground with him in order to build up a rapport between each other, which will keep the conversation alive and his interest vested in you.

Oh, and keep over-sharing and info-dumping to a minimum, if you can, as this may scare him off. Unless, of course, he already knows that you have AS, in which case he may be endeared by your social blundering and breadth of knowledge.

Good luck!