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mds_02
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26 Oct 2011, 8:19 am

changed my mind, don't want this up here anymore. thanks for kind responses.


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If life's not beautiful without the pain, 
well I'd just rather never ever even see beauty again. 
Well as life gets longer, awful feels softer. 
And it feels pretty soft to me. 

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KenM
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26 Oct 2011, 8:26 am

Hugs. Let it out good to vent people need to vent.



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26 Oct 2011, 9:15 am

Things from the past haunt you if you never talk about them and always suppress them. You need to communicate it to cope with it and probably not only once. If this here doesn't help you in a longer term talk with a friend or look for people online with similar experiences or someone who you trust, or join a group where you can stay anonymously. It helps a lot to share your feelings and to realise you are not the only one. I think that's important especially for males who always try to be strong and not dare to show emotions. You did well that you wrote it here and that's a good start. I wish you the very best. It's not weak to face yourself and your feelings, it's strength.