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I don't know if this should be the right forum to write on, but here's what I have to say. I'm 25, still live at home with my parents, single, a virgin and have never had a girlfriend. Also I don't socialize very much, whenever it's the weekend people usually go to parties, the pub or just hang but me I just prefer to stay home and watch TV.

But here's what the subject is. Sometimes but not all of the times I look at naked women on the internet. I know it pretty shameful but sometime I can't help myself. I've looked at so many videos and pictures online that I've learned the names of the actresses and the movies their in and thats kinda sad. I guess people would call me a pervert or something but it's not like I'm a monster or something, I don't think women are objects or anything, I just have weak moments. It's like smoking which is bad for you but you can't help yourself because your addicted. I guess you could compare me to those lonely but lovable losers you see on TV and films like the Comic Book Guy from The Simpsons or Howard from The Big Bang Theory.

Most men are hardwired to like to look at naked ladies. It is really difficult to override that sort of hard wiring. I mean there are hormones and the biological urge to procreate all working for ya' there, and it is very difficult to overcome.
Take heart that you want to know those naked ladies, their names and their bodies of work, etc. because that means you see them as women and artists/actors and respect their professions. I mean, you could be some sort of creep that just tosses them away like so much used kleenex, but no, you have a relationship (albeit only one way) with them.

Sounds like you are missing a companion in your life, is all.

I wish you the best.

Don't feel bad man. I first started looking at dirty pictures when I was only 15! And didnt have a serious girlfriend until I was 19. That didnt last 4 months and im single again but man it just takes time.

I don't see anything wrong with looking at pornography; just avoid looking at it online because your computer can get viruses from some of those websites. Try a magazine instead. Personally, I don't look at it because the women make me too jealous ("why don't I have a girlfriend?") and the men are always hideous, but there's nothing morally wrong with looking at it as long as the women who are shown aren't mistreated.

Hey, when you don't have anyone, and you're not getting any, there's absolutely nothing in the world wrong with that at all. You've got to relieve the urges somehow! I'd be willing to venture that more people than not would do the same exact thing in your situation, with the exception of asexual folks.