I try so hard to make everyone happy, but everyone hates me.

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I might seem paranoid or something... but it's true.

I used to have a great girlfirend I met in a phyciatric ward and we loved each other very much, but she started to hate me and started shouting at me and calling me selfish and Facebook blocked me and I have no idea why. She phoned a couple of months later which was really nice of her and she said she says things she doesn't mean when she's angry and it was as much her fault as mine, and she promised to be friends in the future and unblocked me... but since then she's been saying stuff like 'I hate you. You ruined EVERYTHING. I HATE YOU. You don't deserve f*****g anything anymore.' and she's blocke me again and even been trying to get me arrested.

That's what I'm still worried about, as I can't help it but I still love her But so far I've been blocked my over 20 people who I've just tried to be nice to, I've been called ugly and creepy and I've been insulted by a few other people as well, and even just now someone posted a list of random things to do with random people and I (jokingly) said 'Pfft. I'm all of them.' and then someone said 'not sure she'd share a room with you tbh' and she said 'I want to put HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA. At that but that would be inappropriate' at that, and so I just feel like everyone hates me and the only time I don't feel hated is when I'm in an animal sancuary with the animals and away from everyone else but although it's kinda of helping, I'm still feeling really depressed over it and over my ex hating me in particular. :/

My advice is stop trying to make people happy. Stop caring what others think about you. When someone hates you, its not you they hate, its an idea they hate. The idea is in all likelihood invalid because if you truly understood the other persons perspective, you couldn't hate them. I notice that when I start to hate someone, 99.9% of the time I find out later down the line that I just had the wrong idea about them. I saw them for something they weren't. In my experience hatred stems from weaknesses. Heres a quote that probably sums it all up: "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” Mahatma Gandhi
Only the weak and vulnerable hate and hold grudges against others. Maybe you should start associated more with people who don't hate or hold grudges.

Love like that to me can never just be one sided. Love is enduring as well. This is more infatuation or obsessiveness.

These people on facebook.. are just people on facebook. Their opinion doesn't count for anything.

Ever hear the old saying that you can't please everyone? Not everyone you run into is a nice or respectful person. Or even deserves for you to "try" to make them happy, let alone acknowledge them. Some people have chosen to be disrespectful pricks and thats how its going to be.