I've gotten myself into something pretty bad[please delete?]

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This is something very private, and sexual in nature. And no, it's not prostitution.
But I feel like I'm digging a hole for myself that I can't talk myself out of.
I don't want to do this on a public forum, so if anyone is willing to listen to me
and talk to me and not judge...if you're willing to talk to me, please comment here
and message me. I really just want to talk to one person, as I don't want to repeat
this many times. This is a somewhat embarrassing issue that I can never talk about
IRL.

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for the love of god, I want to move on from this already.
I'm not doing anything dodgy. I'm not cybersexing the
people I'm talking to. There are easier ways of doing that
on the internet.. I am not even using explicit language, though
you'll have to take my word for that (even if you won't.)
I made this post with the intention to seek help.
I've received messages that intend to help.
There is nothing helpful in this thread.
THE END, OKAY?

Last edited by antematterghosts on 08 Jan 2012, 4:08 am, edited 2 times in total.

It's an anonymous forum, just spit it out.

Let's see ... an anonymous person whose age is listed as under 18 wants to discuss something of a sexual nature - in private.

How much trouble could an adult get into with that?

Depends where you live.

You can talk about it in the open. Maybe one of the mods can move this topic to adult discussion (17+ are allowed to post there) so non-members can't see your posts.

So you're saying that I should ask the 15-16 year olds for advice on something that's supposed to be beyond the experience of a young person?

I considered posting there, but it's more like a discussion forum and I don't want a discussion.

I have several reasons NOT to, the first of which is because I don't want my private business out here regardless of the anonymity. The second is that there are young people on this forum. And the third is because I don't want random people making sarcastic or mean comments.

That I asked for a private discussion is my business, so butt out.

Anyway, I've gotten messages already.
The purpose of this topic has been fulfilled.

I agree with Fnord, it looks dodgy and should be conducted in the open, where you can be safely anonymous.

If it's to do with abuse, there are forums for that as well where people won't make sarcastic or hurtful comments.

It didn't occur to me at first that this sounds pretty sketchy. It kind of does, actually, and I think it might have had something to do with my state of mind this morning. All the same, 'out in the open' leaves me vulnerable to trolls and mean-spirited people and other stuff. And this issue is too sensitive for me that I wouldn't be able to stand it, and I'd probably f**k myself up even more because of that.

Also, with regards to the issue of age--yes, I'm a teenager and I would like to talk to a more responsible person about a matter in which I may have gotten in way over my head in and have no experience dealing with. Is this what I'm being criticized for?

And...fraac, you don't get to say what should and shouldn't be done. You don't know my situation, and you don't seem to understand my reasons. You don't know anything, so you can't claim to know which course of action is the better one.

I know that your chances of finding someone responsible by coming to an autistic forum and saying "I'm a 17 year old girl out of my depth with sexual stuff, please pm me" are pretty slim. Why don't you pick someone wise-looking and pm them? Totally dodgy.

I'm glad you feel better.

No, I'm saying that any adult who would try to counsel you in private over something of a sexual nature would be risking arrest and prison on a number of criminal charges.

You would be better off consulting your parents or your a physician, or discussing these issues in the open (at least until you turn 21).

Question: Are you now, or have you ever been, a duly-sworn officer of any law-enforcement body, or an informant or paid employee thereof?

Yes yes yes you already said that so many times. My choice of words was awkward and easily misconstrued. I'm sorry for that. But either tell me how I'm supposed to judge someone's wisdom over the internet, or just move on.