I am disappointed in humanity

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I f*****g hate the way people are today. So judgemental, so f*****g childish. I walk into a shop to ask about an advertised vacancy, and as soon as I turn my back, I hear them snigger and laugh at me (if they are young girls). What the f**k was so funny about a girl walking into a shop, wearing nice clothes, smiling, making normal eye contact, being confident enough to walk in and ask, and just doing all the normal gestures what anybody else would do, any little tiny thing that is abnormal shouldn't be too obvious enough to make these immature c***s giggle. I really don't know what the f**k these people want from me. One of these days I'm going to kick their f*****g heads in, and see if they laugh then. I left school to get away from all of this s**t from other people, and now it's even worse! If I was some sort of skanky spastic walking into a shop with tangly hair and reeked of dirty unwashed clothes and walking really funny, then yeah, fair enough, although that still isn't right to laugh but they will, but to laugh at somebody who is just as ordinary as anyone else is f*****g ret*d and they must have a VERY poor sense of humour. Would you laugh if you were working behind a till in a shop and an ordinary-looking young girl walked in and smiled and handed a CV to you and said with friendly confidence, ''I saw your job advertisement in the window/newspaper, can I give my CV to you?''? No. These types of girls should be ashamed of themselves. They should think themselves lucky they have a job, not go laughing at people who are going around handing a CV in. That is not proffessional behaviour. That is playground behaviour. That is what 9-year-olds would do in the playground. Not adults in the workplace, especially if they are dealing with the public. I really don't know what sort of employers manage these shops if they employ these f*****g immature s**theads who go laughing at people all the time.

Also, I would love the snow if it weren't for people giggling and laughing at me - and letting me know that they're giggling and laughing - when I slip. Or not even when I slip, just when my foot slips a bit. Um, excuse me, it's an icy day, there are a big icy patches on the pavements what I can't always avoid, will you stop laughing or just laugh quietly? If I was behind somebody who was struggling to walk upright on a patch of lethal ice and I was right behind them, I would see them slipping and think, ''oh my god, it must be really slippery there, I hope I don't slip myself. If she's slipping, it must be very slippery''. God, I hate people! Or it would even be all right if somebody asked, ''are you all right?'' but laughed a bit as they said it, because it sounds more friendly then. But when you get people sniggering at you behind you (which is what I got before), it sounds really nasty because I know that sniggering isn't a proper laugh, it is a ''God, look at that stupid girl!'' laugh. And it just kills me on the inside that I have to put up with this f*****g s**t for the rest of my life, all because these unempathetic, immature people can't keep their opinions to themselves, and think just because I look like a f*****g stupid ret*d it means I have no feelings. I think some of these f*****g young a***holes need to be educated. I am f*****g disappointed in who kids of today are becoming. Didn't even know I looked ret*d even, but having these f*****s laughing at me is starting to make me wonder if a) I have got 2 heads, or b) I act mental all the time and scare the s**t out of people. Um, I don't recall doing that, but I must do, because that's the impression that I seem to get from other people.

It's the same for me, unfortunately. I've found people to be extremely judgmental even when the smallest abnormality is displayed. I get literally s*at on everyday because of my so-called odd behavior. I've been laughed at, sneared at, called names, the whole bag basically. And the sad part is, is that I know it will never end unless I change myself as an individual.

You don't want to work with those b*****s anyway.

Oh dear. Sounds like you're getting yourself all het up. I know its easy to automatically think people are all against you, but I garentee that 9 times out of 10 theyre probably not laughing at you at all. Sometimes even I have walked into some sort of fashion shop and notice other young girls kind of staring and looking like they found something about me to laugh about, but I know that they probably aren't. They probably havent even noticed me at all. Just think, if they are at the till, they are dealing with customers all day, probably used to dealing with all different kinds of people in their shop, I'm sure someone like you isnt going to completely stand out and be a target for laughter. My sister works at a customer service bit in the busiest shop in the high street and gosh does she get some funny people come into the shop! I'm sure she doesnt class ordinary looking young girls like you as one of them. Its usually older people who are more likely to be the weird ones. And she gets people handing her their cv and asking for job vacancies etc, and thats nothing to laugh about, whether they young or old or whatever.

And with the snow thing, nobody likes slipping over. Everybody feels embarrassed. Everybody has the same chance of slipping as you. You are in the same boat as everybody else. I know it isnt very nice to have people laughing at you behind you because it does feel to you like theyre watching you slip and trying to make you feel more uncomfortable by laughing loud, but you are not a target. They will probably laugh at anyone who is slipping about in front of them. In fact, its probably better when its icey because thenj you can get away with walking a bit funny at times. Everybody has got to be cautious and walk carefully when its icey and hard to avoid, so you can sort of walk in ways what you would look more odd walking when its NOT an icey day. You can look down more, walk more slow, and know that other people are doing the same because THEY are afraid of slipping and so are less likely to notice what your'e doing. When its summer, your more likely to be noticed because there are more people about, all wearing brightly coloured clothes, and are more likely to look at one another. When its cold, you can wrap up and put on a hat and people dont care so much who you are and what you look like because the cold weather makes most people feel miserable and rush to get home in the warm. So dont be so worried that everybodys spotting you.

Also winter only comes once a year, we havnt had any snow this winter right up until now, so we should think ourselves lucky. I know its easy to take ordinary weather for graunted and then be shocked when the snow does arrive, but it will soon be spring, and the snow wont last forever. Itd probably be gone by next week, all back to normal again, back to rain and wind.

Last edited by monstermunch on 02 Feb 2012, 5:21 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I know how you feel. I've been on the receiving end of that type of treatment my entire life. I give off this vibe of being nonthreatening. Which I basically am. I don't really feel the need to treat others like crap, but it seems that's the exact reason why certain people treat me that way. It's like I've got this massive bulls eye on me and whoever I come into view of, can't resist having a shot at knocking me down.

I'm sorry you went through that. It can make one feel really low about ones self. I'm only capable of seeing the world through my own perspective. To me that type of behaviour seems unnecessary, as I'm someone who always internalizes his feelings. When I see others do things like that, the motivation behind it is lost on me, and it makes me feel even more alienated and vulnerable, as I feel I'm surrounded by people I cannot understand. Anyway I think I need to be a bit more thick skinned coz I know I'm a magnet for such behaviour. Wish I could say somthing that could make you feel better.

Yeah, I also hate it when people are judgmental.

Well not everybody is like it, but I just don't understand people who are. There is no need to laugh at people who aren't doing anything different. I've got to look for work, I've been told to hand in CVs around shops, so this is what I'm doing, and I'm sure lots of other unemployed people are doing this too. These horrible young girls in these shops should be used to different people coming in and asking for an application or handing in a CV. Not all young girls are like it. I've spoken to a few in these shops and they seemed really friendly and I could tell they didn't find anything comical about me. Until I actually see for myself that other ordinary people get laughed at sometimes, I will carry on being hurt about it.

But surely it isn't a social rule to laugh at other people who hand a CV into a shop. There's us Aspies being told that that type of behaviour is immature and that we should be proffessional when dealing with the public, but aren't some of these young NTs acting immature, when they should know better than Aspies to know what is appropriate or inappropriate? And NTs have empathy....? Right, OK, I would dearly love to believe that.

humanity is a virus upon the earth, nuff said >_>

I think some people behave like that because they are immature and believe they are better. I see it all the time and have had it happen to me.
We are all the same really, even with our diffeences. Lots of people cannot understand anything different because we live in a very self-centered society. They are too focused on themselves and what is considered "perfect". If they see someone who has it together they laugh and talk due to feeling threatened in some way.

Yeah, there's the (most likely, IMO) problem. A lot of teen females seem to love sniggering at people. It's because they're worldly and sophisticated ...in their own minds (as opposed to reality). There was probably some microscopic thing that you were doing "wrong." Eff them. FWIW, that may lessen with age -- I don't often get that kind of stuff nowadays (and don't care much if I do from some snot-nosed brats).

I think a lot of your problems come from living where you do. I found it a lot easier after moving away from the place I grew up in. I know that's not an option for you right now, but remember that the whole world won't treat you like this.

I just wish some people out there would understand that some of us have no choice but to go out to public places. I have to go to my voluntary job, get the buses, get groceries, meet my friends/family, go to the jobcentre, etc, etc, etc. And that's what most people are out to do, for all different reasons. Must being out in public turn into an ''I'm better than you'' compitition? The street is not for extroverted NTs only. It is for anybody, (as long as nobody's breaking the law, but that's a different thing to what I'm saying).

Somebody explain to me why they say Aspies lack empathy and are self-centered and NTs aren't??? It keeps on bugging me and I won't rest until I know why they put ''lack of empathy'' on the Autism diagnostic criteria, as though it's a unique thing to humans. If NTs did have empathy for universal people, then Aspies wouldn't get misunderstood, would they?

I feel the same.

So true. I hate how we get accused of the same thing that most of them are 100 times more guilty of committing (lack of empathy).

Yes!! !

So true!!
And i'm sorry that you are surrounded by so many stupid people.