Worst momnt of my life, help me

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I just told my husband I want a divorce and not to come back home. He's an ass. A drunk and a sh*t. I'm so upset right now I can't stand it. Please, somebody, be there for me.

I'm so sorry, OliveOilMom. That's a tough moment. It was for me, for sure. I'm here for you.

whoa, OOM, I know what that's like. I hope you have other support too IRL.

I'm sorry, OliveOilMom. I really enjoy reading your posts; you're always so forthright and sensible and interesting. I hope things get better for you.

*hugs OliveOilMom tightly* I'm really, really sorry. Just know that the people here on WP are your friends and we will always be there for you. Or at the very least I will...

Ouch. You must be feeling like your world is crumbling. I'm proud of you for being able to take action. I have been there and it was really difficult for me to take a stand. He might try to come to you with promises of change, but in my experience its better to separate and reconsider things only if you see the change and are willing to try again. And chances are low that that will happen, unfortunately.

There are so many stressful, painful things you must be thinking about right now. One of the most difficult parts for me was figuring out how I was going to be able to support myself (I didn't have a car and we were sharing rent). It must be even worse for you because you're a mom with more responsibilities. I'm sorry. I hate to hear that you're suffering like that. Alcohol and addictions have no place in a healthy relationship.

Sorry you are in a bad way. When dealing with toxic people, unless they are willing to change, the best way to handle things is to either end all contact, or minimize contact. This can be hard to do, as we tend to get in a pattern of behavior relating to that person over time. It can be very wrenching to end the relationship, especially close family ones.

I wish you a great life!

good luck OOM. *hugs*

I know I hardly know you at all, but I'm really sorry you are having such a horrible time

I'm sorry to hear that OliveOilMom. I haven't ever quite been in that experience before but I'm here if you want to talk. You're always helping others on this website and you're very friendly. You don't need somebody like that in your life, you deserve much better. It's upsetting to you now but think about the future and the good outcomes that can happen with that burden off of your back.

Brave girl (hope you don't mind the "girl", it's more of an expression), I think I speak for everyone when I say I hope this turns out for the best, and you're showing an incredibla strenght that is just a thing to admire and hope one self possess if the time comes.

Stick to your guns, we're all rooting for you.

HI OliveOilMom. Your posts give insightful advice to others. Hold fast to what is true inside yourself. I'm sorry it came to this. Whatever happens elsewhere, you do have friends on WrongPlanet. Good luck.

Good luck!
If it's really bad, stay firm on your decision, don't compromise.

Sweet Pea hugs.

I'll be there for you. I'm very sorry about what happened. I hope it turns out in your favor. You're a good friend and a strong woman.

Moral support, hand on shoulder in prayer. Reeeeallly hoping it turns out to be the best decision to make for yourself and your kids, in the same manner you decided to take action with your momster. Serenity and sanity all the way :awkward aspie hug

Thank you all so much. You have no idea how much your kind words mean to me.