I'm not sure if I understand the concept of consequences

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09 Aug 2012, 5:48 am

Like I push people away and screw up relationships and I don't expect my destructive behavior to make them crack. I do this with therapy and beliefs which I abuse the purpose of in my mind, and I know I'm making myself weak by my lack of care for my heart and mind...I didn't really expect to go this sour...I know that I can and will get better if I focus on reading and writing, though...Maybe I am a natural introvert. I still like working on relationships, though. PM me if you want to be friends or have reading suggestions. I can also give advice and suggest books, although I'm not sure if my advice and book suggestions will be perfectly what you are looking for.



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09 Aug 2012, 5:56 am

I have too much pride I think....Pride cometh before the fall...



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10 Aug 2012, 5:16 pm

Someone said that to me recently. "pride cometh before the fall" but it was literally a member of the local parish. I don't even go to mass or whatever. meh.

I can kind of relate to your post but have no useful words to offer



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11 Aug 2012, 12:11 am

Same as above.



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11 Aug 2012, 12:53 am

meems wrote:
Someone said that to me recently. "pride cometh before the fall" but it was literally a member of the local parish. I don't even go to mass or whatever. meh.

I can kind of relate to your post but have no useful words to offer


I don't have any advice either because I do pretty much the same thing. The people who stick around with me have to have a high tolerance for me.

As for the pride cometh before a fall thing, my answer to that is for me, 8 tequila shots and somebody's shoes left in the floor is what cometh before a fall.


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11 Aug 2012, 2:07 am

I can't really offer anything as I've only been on the recieving end.
Is it a natural reaction or can you tell when it is coming?


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