Great, my bestie is dating a skinhead

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Well, my bestie came over last night with her new boy. He seemed really nice, at first. Very polite, calls me "maam" and doesn't make a mess. Offered to cut the grass for free too. Did not drink my booze.

Then, later on about 2am as we were sitting around talking, I found out he's a skinhead. I mean WTF, that should have been the first thing she told me about him rather than how good he treats her. Well, maybe the second, he does treat her good and she needs somebody to, but he's a f*****g skinhead!!

Earlier in the evening I noticed that he used the n word a lot more than most people do. He also said some sh*t about black people that could have come directly from my grandfather, but I let that slide too, since he treats my bestie good.

So after a tirade of his about how black people "aren't human" and I glanced at her and she was just rolling her eyes but saying nothing, I said "what the f*ck is wrong with you dude? What about Jews? Hate them too? What about foreigners?" Yeah, like I thought, he hates them as well. He also hates "race traitors" which are to him, people who don't hate black people. Now, I kept my mouth shut about the fact that my bestie, his gf, slept with quite a few black guys and we both have friends who are black, but damn.

A skinhead. Really. They are still here. She's asleep in my bed right now and he's right there asleep on my couch. Six feet away. They don't have a ride back to his place. I'll get my husband to take them home later. I hope to God that ole boy doesn't tell my husband that he's a skinhead. That will not be pretty.

I asked him if there is anybody he doesn't hate. He said "white people". I told him I can probably find him 6 different reasons to hate any particular person so why use such a broad brush to paint everybody with. He saidd God wants it like that. Jesus f*cking Christ. This won't last long, my bestie is an athiest.

It does make me wonder though, whats he doing in the sack to make her put up with this s**t? Either he's real hung, real good, or has access to lots of what she wants.

I do not like him. But then again I do because he's so nice to me. But I have to keep reminding myself how he would hate my friends.

He has a surprisingly large number of Justin Timberlake songs on his ipod and lots of shirtless pics of Justin (thats what he calls him, Justin). I told him I think he's closet gay cause why otherwise would he have shirtless pics of a guy? I love to listen to Amy Winehouse but I do not want to see her naked or close to naked.

Then right before I passed out, we watched "American History X" on the computer. I was sort of hoping it would drive it home that being racist and skinhead is f*cking stupid, but it did not. He made me rewind it several times to rewatch when the star of the movie kills a black guy by putting his face on the curb and stepping on him. I told him "You're gonna go home and jerk off to this, aren't you?"

A**shole!

But I am gonna let him do my front yard and also bush hog my back yard cause that grass is chest high on me and I'm tall.

Oh dar, hubby just found out. And he's being an ass. Yelling at me about his "constitutional rights". I hate that sh*t when people yell it at you like that. Plus, he doesn't even understand them.

I got in his face and told him that he is going to make nice at least until one of two things happen. She gets tired of him OR he comes over and does my yards. Since hubby can't be damn bothered to do them. It's not football so it's not important.

Be very careful with him. They are prone to impulsively attack "race traitors" than other ethnic groups; at times it's almost like they lose focus on other groups they hate. Chances are she will get tired of it someday, but keep in the back of your mind that you will likely have to weigh a potential physical risk to help her.

I think it's his right to speak his mind, it's also your right to think this person is a utter loser and shouldn't be allowed in your house. These people to learn what it's like to be hated on because of your race. Guess what I am white and I don't feel hated because I am white.

OliveOilMom, you have one of more interesting lives of any one on WP.

Chase dem crazy baldheads out of town...

Oh, she'll get tired of him soon enough I'm sure. If he lays a hand on her, she will kill him, I have no doubt of that. I'm not worried about her physically. She carries a gun and he doesn't know that cause he doesn't go in her purse. She's safe physically, I'm more worried about him hurting her emotionally. He's too jealous. Me and her were talking about just us going out to eat here next weekend, and he got all mad about that. We both decided that he's a bit whiney.

Then he got mad cause they were asleep on the couch in here and when my husband got up to go to work, he came out here to get online and drink coffee in just his underwear. Now, granted, nobody wants to see my husband in his tighty whities but it's his house. He walks around in his underwear sometimes. My friend's seen him do that and while it's embarrassing the first few times, she doesn't even notice it now. Ole boy got all upset over it. Like he thought my husband was trying to show her his junk or something. He's an idiot.

It's probably worth noting that not all skinheads are political extremists (of either the communist or white supremacist variety). Many are not interested in politics and dislike racism (although the [usually extreme left] "anti-racists" can often be as big a thuggish nuisance as the racists).

He does sound like a nasty, nasty piece of work though. If I were her I'd drop him like a ton of bricks.

Of course she should drop him, but she's the Queen of bad decisions. You'd think I'd hold that office, but I'm only the Princess of bad decisions, she's got me beat by a long shot. She's such a pretty girl and so sweet, but she sleeps with everything in pants and shoots dope sometimes so she's got a reputation. It's like she's got no self esteem at all. I constantly tell her that she can do better (pretty much with everything cause she always goes as low as possible it seems) but it doesn't get through to her.

I have seen her curled up on my bed crying and saying she deserves whatever sh*t of the moment that's going on, so many times that it's not funny. I wish to God she would stay off the drugs and find a decent guy, her own age. I doubt that'll happen though. At least I got her to stay out of that trailer park.

You think so? I think it's kind of boring nowdays. I mean I seriously sometimes get all down over the fact that I live out here where nothing happens and it's boring as hell. I want to go back to Birmingham but my husband won't.

Decorum to Skinheads is like Oxygen to Space. Introduce it to it's environment and it's sucked away into non-existence.

I don't know about over there, but on the eastern part of the US (and not just the south) skinheads tend to lack inhibition. "The white man's drug" doesn't help matters either.

Certainly your life appears full of colourful characters OliveOilMom. Wondering what your life in Birmingham was like if you think it's boring now ...

Oh, my life in Bham was wonderful. I had lots of friends that I saw a lot. Liberty Belle had me doing this Victor Victoria thing at the drag show at the club. I lip synched "I' Still Here" on a piano on stage. My neighbors were nice. I had a nice life there. Then I moved to Hell. You cannot even buy an intelligent conversation in this town.

Is the white man's drug some sort of conspiracy, unless we are talking about meth.