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JWS
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09 Jan 2013, 7:10 pm

by my girlfriends family. Even a woman I thought really liked me blocked me on facebook, and I have no idea WHY she did it! NO explanation, NO reasoning- NOTHING! >:-(
Is it because of my AS that she suddenly dislikes me? I have NO IDEA! And she is the fourth in a row to do it!

Just don't know HOW this can turn out! Needed to vent my pent up feelings...


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09 Jan 2013, 7:37 pm

I can sympathize-I have been de friended and ignored and lied to and people at work and elsewhere say one thing and do another-I have had to vent too at times-getting it out may not make the feelings or situation resolve but it can help release the stress by getting it out.


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09 Jan 2013, 7:37 pm

sorry for your difficulties.



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09 Jan 2013, 8:21 pm

Thank you both for supporting me! It's been a ROUGH night! :cry:


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09 Jan 2013, 8:51 pm

YOUR NOT LONE. im always mistreated even by people with aspergers. everyone hates me. so i hit myself with blunt objects.



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10 Jan 2013, 5:04 pm

I can sympathize-I have been de friended and ignored and lied to and people at work and elsewhere say one thing and do another-I have had to vent too at times-getting it out may not make the feelings or situation resolve but it can help release the stress by getting it out.


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10 Jan 2013, 7:00 pm

Be careful hitting yourself. Try hitting something soft or crush ice in your hand. Self harming is never a good thing. I have broken 2 cell phones that way. Not only does it cost you money it also made me bleed from my forehead.



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10 Jan 2013, 7:25 pm

Just adding a word of support,

Best to you, LM


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28 Jan 2013, 8:28 pm

It has only gotten WORSE- NOW I lost my girlfriend on top of everything else! I can't win for losing! :cry: :cry: :cry:


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28 Jan 2013, 9:15 pm

sounds like someone been talking some smack about you



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28 Jan 2013, 9:21 pm

I only know if you can't be there to defend yourself, you are just PLAIN OUTTA LUCK! :x :cry:


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