I am going away(not from here).

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So it has come time for me to go away from my moms house because all I do is add to the problems around here. It's complex don't really want to try and explain exactly why here but lets just stay staying here waiting for things to mellow out and then another bloody explosion of rage from everyone, waiting for it to mellow out over and over and over feels like insanity so I am done.

I am going to do the rest of my laundry, take a shower pack some things and leave....either later or in the morning, I'll go to my aunts house as a starting point since I've already ok'd it with her. I want away from the tightly knit circle of family drama that is my family, the hell with most of them. But I am going away as its the best option for now.

I hope it will be to the best for you. Your family sounds as an endless drama.

It is, its like a roller coaster and I feel its my stop to get off the ride now.

I really hate hearing other people fight. I prefer not to yell at people (or being yelled at). I might avoiding unpleasant things (there is a term for that, but it eludes my mind at the moment). I really do not see the reason to do any incomprehensible yelling at another fellow person, if it is possible to avoid it.

Making your own choices and taking action for yourself sounds like a really good move.

Keep us informed; I for one support your decision.

Good luck.
Your avatar makes me feel very old by the way.

Oh good I wasn't hearing things, my mom and her boyfriend have actually been arguing since the early hours of the morning. See just more reason to move out. But yeah if I go to my aunts house there might still be some drama but not nearly as much and she has a rather large place with like 5 rooms she gets for like the price of an apartment so she uses like two rooms and then theres like 3 and a bathroom downstairs so it would be big enough.

hmmm or I keep waiting it out at my moms house till the 18th go to the psych ward and then move out......either way I can't bloody stay here much longer just have to make an actual plan before I up and do it.

I think it's a great idea.

I have had a couple friends who had family issues and moving out did them a world of good. One of them was stressed and sick all the time from the trainwreck of a house she lived in. She's much happier now.

Two others were constantly at war with their mothers, until they moved out, now they have good relationships.

Good luck, but I def think your doing the right thing moving out.

My earliest memories are the sounds of shouting and arguing. I know how you feel. Getting away from is good.

Sweet Pea hugs

I hope things work out for you, there.