Please cheer me up

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I really need some support right now...

I had to have my penis partially amputated 3 weeks ago because of a small blister that was on my skin inside. I got it checked out and the doctors determined it was an early case of penile cancer that already started spreading, leading to a penectomy.

I'm happy to be alive and for the docs to catch it but I'm so depressed right now its not even funny.

Take in part this happened 4 days after my 21st birthday, some birthday present.

I don't know what to do anymore...I've never had a relationship with a girl and how they he11 is someone gonna want me with a stupid f*ckin 2 in. stump.

I know others are suffering worse, but I can't help but feel the most extreme feeling of bitterness right now...I just break out crying every once in a while now its just like an ultimate undeserving punishment. What did I do to ever deserve cancer in my penis?

Just help me through this please

It sounds like you desperately need something to raise your spirits so I'll give it a shot. I think that there must be some kind of penis construction/reconstruction surgery available. I mean, if they can surgically turn a woman into a man then there has got to be some kind of procedure that can give you back your penis. Also there are many ways that a man can please a women without the use of his penis. There are also other ways in which a man can receive stimulation. This may not be ideal, but you do have options. I also recommend lots of comedy shows to raise your spirits. I really hope that this helps you feel better.

i know the OP is going through hell right now, and there isn't much i can say to make him feel better, other than to reiterate the 2nd poster's assertion that surgical techniques can extract roughly 2" of "hidden" penile erectile tissue from within his pubis, it was the same technique used to help a local child here who was the victim of a madman who sliced off the six year old child's organ. as for restoration of penile sensation, the best technique is an electronic penile nerve stimulator [one end goes in the rectum/prostate while the other goes inside the urethra] the child's doctors offered to him when he became an adolescent, so that he could have the sensation of orgasm. here's hoping the OP can find a broad-minded and level-headed woman who can see past everything else but the person inside. they do exist, e.g., the late christopher reeve's wife stood by him even after he was rendered a quadraplegic in a tragic riding accident.

I'm really sorry that has happened, and I hope you can start feeling better soon. You definitely don't deserve this, and you have every right to be upset.

It doesn't mean that no girl will ever be interested in you-please don't think that. All sorts of 'imperfect' people find successful loving relationships, so it won't be impossible for you. There are a lot more people than you'd think with embarrassing physical features. It's still hard to come to terms with, and I can't blame you for feeling sad.

Also, here are some cute kittens:

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That is ridiculously bad luck. Like others said, you can get some penis back and you will be able to find a woman who doesn't mind. I know I wouldn't.

I wish I had the words to say that could make you feel better (
I'm so sorry that this has happen to you, I know that's not very helpful.
But from a womens point of view if two people love each other deeply the way love is suppose to be then they can work through any thing. They stand by each other no matter what. I think when you find the right person, it will not matter to them at all.
I'm not a man so I can't say I know how you feel, but I am a women and I know that if I loved someone their size wouldn't matter to me. What is important is friendship, compionship and love.

If they can regrow a penis, maybe they can grow you a woman.

I am so sorry for what happened to you. It is completely understandable why you would be upset.

I know it probably doesn't help, but I can offer a woman's perspective. Not all women are alike, but most of us place a high value on how we feel about a man. I know that is what attracted me to my husband- I love him for who he is.

I'm really sorry that has happened to you. **Have some hugs from me**

If it means anything - as a woman, I wouldn't be bothered by that kind of thing whatsoever. I'm sure you'll find a lovely girl who will accept you completely.

Thanks everyone, but honestly you are the only people who would take me afterwards because you are the actual nice people...when you get into the real "cruel" world I'm going to be looked at as a joke....It's just the truth. Before this happened, I never even made progress, I just don't know how it's gonna help me now.

Thanks though, I really needed some encouragement, anything.