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Flow
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31 Dec 2006, 11:33 am

My uncle is in the hospital on life support, and he hates me :!:

PANIC :!: :!: :!:

HELP :!: :!: :!:


News Flash!
He Died :!:



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31 Dec 2006, 12:02 pm

I know your post is a month old, but I see no one's replied. What's going on? Is your question "how do I bridge the emotional gap"? First of all, how do you know he "hates" you? Why would he?



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31 Dec 2006, 1:54 pm

I dont worry about people who hate me.My grandmother did and I never visited her....seemed like the most considerate thing to do.Why put her through something as unpleasant as being in my company.


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31 Dec 2006, 7:49 pm

Is there anything you can do to either (A) get him off life support, or (B) get him to stop hating you?

If not, I wouldn't worry about it.


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31 Dec 2006, 8:28 pm

He hates me, because when I was younger I was always trying to get him to stop smoking cigarettes, because there are bad for his health. I was really annoying.
I'm also really worried about my mom, because he is her brother, and a have a tendency to always say the worst thing, no-matter what I do.
I also don't know how to feel, because honestly he hates me, and his life has no effect on mine, except for how my mom feels.
Every time I think that he is on life support my stomach feels like it is twisted. I also feel wrong for almost not caring. Plus I don't know how I am going to concentrate in school with this going on, and finals are near.
He is dying :!: