people are selfish black holes of affection

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it's a waste of time for me to want a hug, for me to want a caring word, for me to want affection, for me to want to not be mocked and taken seriously, for me to want anyone to give a *** about me for any reason whatsoever. even ppl willing to *** me don't give a *** but are just plain selfish becuz why would anyone wnat to talk to me to give something to me when they can just take and take and take like the worthless selfish pack monkeys they are.

thats all.

if i see a woman with roses shes probably getting some mace in her obnoxious bimbo face.

I know what you mean.

My contempt for ego runs so deep I will stand toe to toe with ANYONE when their ego deludes them and it means I'm taking emotional or social "shots".

I would like to say however you views on "people" will also relate to your self-love as "people" like it or not includes us.

Take care

There is a lot of truth to what you say about people being self-centered. There must be some sort of survival instinct at the back of it I would think, but some take it to an extreme degree. Most people I find, fall somewhere along the middle on the 'ego spectrum'.

If I could think of one thing to suggest, it would be to think more about your strengths then percieved weaknesses, which are mainly accident of birth in a very unequal world. Some measure of sucess can be gained by working on and using your strengths (what you are good at) and not over focusing on weaknesses.

I don't get the impression you are a bad person, but are a sad person, so this is for you.



I have some chocolates for my wife and daughter. But I must admit I have had periods of being unthoughtful in this respect. My wife basically had to read me the riot act one year & it was a lesson I have not forgotten. Aspies I think most easily can drift into self-centeredness, but it doesn't come from ego.

Sweet Pea hugs