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sickity
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02 Jul 2013, 6:13 pm

so i got an internship for a theatre program in my town, and i am sosososo grateful. seriously, it's been great.
untillllllllll this new person came in. she's like...a supervisor i guess. she's..ditzy, to put it well. she can't do her make up to save her life which is the first thing that bothered me. and she follows the other intern and i around saying "you need to smile!"
and theeeeeeeen. she said these things. these are literally what she said to me:
"there's a tranny on my softball team. haha, it's a man woman! i mean, we're not supposed to tell...but..."
"i think it's so neat how autistics remember everything! if only we could get in their heads, i know they're actually brilliant people."

and my absolute favorite (sarcasm)
"some kids just deserve to get molested!"


idk
i just needed to talk about this some more. i told my therapist and she said "it sounds to me like she has legitimate mental health problems.."
blah. and i'm stuck with this girl for the next like...two weeks.



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03 Jul 2013, 2:46 am

There are a lot of intolerant/tactless people in the world. Unfortunately transphobia is rampant in society, as are tactless and poorly informed generalizing comments about ASDs, and utterly tasteless jokes about sexual abuse. I'm sorry you have to deal with her.



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03 Jul 2013, 10:15 am

Well they say theatre people are eclectic, i think we have a winner.



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03 Jul 2013, 10:22 am

I feel the need to confront this kind of person. To do that you do not have to be confrontational, just calm and polite questioning of ignorant and stooopid concepts. :twisted:



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03 Jul 2013, 5:49 pm

She seems to like targeting minority/vulnerable groups: LGBT, ASD, children. I'd report her and express how uncomfortable her comments make you feel.



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05 Jul 2013, 12:40 pm

sickity wrote:
so i got an internship for a theatre program in my town, and i am sosososo grateful. seriously, it's been great.
untillllllllll this new person came in. she's like...a supervisor i guess. she's..ditzy, to put it well. she can't do her make up to save her life which is the first thing that bothered me. and she follows the other intern and i around saying "you need to smile!"
and theeeeeeeen. she said these things. these are literally what she said to me:
"there's a tranny on my softball team. haha, it's a man woman! i mean, we're not supposed to tell...but..."
"i think it's so neat how autistics remember everything! if only we could get in their heads, i know they're actually brilliant people."

and my absolute favorite (sarcasm)
"some kids just deserve to get molested!"


idk
i just needed to talk about this some more. i told my therapist and she said "it sounds to me like she has legitimate mental health problems.."
blah. and i'm stuck with this girl for the next like...two weeks.


I can definitely relate. My supervisor at the job I had before this one said a lot of similarly disturbing things. She had some pretty terrible things to say about the unemployed, the poor, people with learning disabilities, people with PTSD, people whose skin was a slightly different shade, muslims, jews, catholics, people who lived in trailer parks, democrats, atheists, people who believe that Obama was born in the US, etc.
She once said "anyone without a job is either lazy, stupid, or a junkie."
And the worst one: "I think we should be allowed to string up [the N word] if they stay on welfare too long."


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