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mrwhite23
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18 Jul 2013, 8:08 pm

Driving is really the only thing that is preventing me from becoming independent and once I can drive myself around I will no longer be dependent on my parents
now I thought I was always afraid of driving but I have driven so well before last night I realized that maybe its not driving I fear but what will happen once I can drive
I know everything will be different maybe i'm to afraid to learn how to drive and subconsciously want things to remain the way they are but I don't any thoughts on this and how do I stop it?



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18 Jul 2013, 9:51 pm

You can stop it by rearranging how you view it, how you feel about it.
In other word if your subconscious is pulling you in one direction it's that mind that needs changed.
I know how to do this, took years to figure out, but it works.

There's no point in me giving you lots of "good advice" or making lots of "suggestions", you already know everything you need to know to make the change you want to make, you have all the experiences you need, to understand where and how you want to go -the direction that's best for you.
You just need to unlock that knowledge and reboot your thoughts regarding it.

You asked and you can find it here. StabilizingAutism/unsolicited-advice
You can find what it can do here. What PAR can do
And
If you're really, really interested you can get a jump-start on a free session here. StabilizingAutism/free-first-session

Once you watch that (tedious) clip, the rest is easy peasy, takes not much time, and you will have this problem resolved.


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