Should I go back home or not

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Hey all, it's been a while since I've posted on this page.
I didn't at all attempt any suicide, I didn't go to my high school graduation, and now I'm feeling miserable about something.
I'm now in Florida after coming from Bangkok, much to the fury of my parents for college.

My parents were very rude and hostile towards me; They'd make something up and beat me up for it, they think I'm not worth anything and I'm not capable of achieving much and are literally arrogant people who simply take pride in my achievements if I achieve something they think I will never accomplish.

I told my parents that I do not want to come back home because we fight literally all the time, we get hostile with one another and we simply do not get along well with one another.

My mom was like "Alright sweetie, we love you, we care for you. If you think it is good that you do not want to come back anymore at all ever again, it is your choice ultimately. What you've said are strong allegations, and it's not like we do not care for you at all."

Should I go back home for the Christmas holidays, or should I spent the rest of my life away from them?

If they beat you up, it's kinna a non brainer.

If you are able to remain on your own, independant financially, able to work etc, I would think it better to stay away until they learn to treat you with basic human decency and respect. If you are still financially dependant on them its very difficult and probably best just to try and keep the peace as best you can for now. But becoming independant would be a major priority. People like that can brainwash you into thinking poorly about yourself when it is not true. At some point you do need to get away from that if they can not change.