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Miss my friend, we talked everyday online for 2.5 years skyped a bunch until bedtime. They were a tease and I got lead on by it even if they didn't intend it they teased me that whole time. Trying really hard not to message them, I don't want a tease for a friend but it's really lonely not having someone to talk to.

I know what you mean. I hope new positive things come into your life to fill the empty space.

They will yes, they always do. It's hard letting a friend go, even if they weren't a very good one. I always thought that they were.

I kind of know what you mean but you just have to remember if they were not a good friend they are not worth your time.

I had a friend that used to tease me and ditch me for other people. Sometimes you don't realize they were not good until they are gone.

I am sure you will find someone that is better.

When I was upset she listened for hours until she had to go to bed. It's nice things like that I'm confused about. The bad things and the good things they make me want to apologize but she has a bf it's not really good for me to be in that position.

Ohhh so you liked her?

Yeah if she has a bf you would need to be careful.

And her listening to you is awesome but sometimes girls just listen.

But I don't know the whole story so I really can't say. I was just hoping you could feel a little better about it.

Missing people is not fun.

I don't really mind that she has a bf can't really blame her on that. Long story short is she grilled me like I was being considered with her questions and then led me on with teasing. Trying to get over it and get a job, my own place, get my License for HVAC, make some friends >.>... I'll eventually be ok I'm just used to being able to talk to someone everyday.

Well it sounds like you have a pretty awesome plan .

And maybe with this offer I am crossing some kind of social line, plus a couple posts on a forum doesn't mean you know a person but if you want to talk we can. I am a good listener (sometimes lol).

I am looking for friends too.

Certainly, always nice to meet new people.

I have had roughly similar experiences in the past. The worst part of going through the withdrawals of not having someone to talk to. It really sucked.

As you said, for me things also eventually turned around, but I was always surprised at how long it took.

Best wishes.

hope things turn out for the best

Took a turn for the worse now. I think I was given a chance and I messed up, I was being a silly aspie trying to make her laugh and shock her. She wants to go to Europe and later I asked to go as a friend was already too late. Ofcourse I'd go to Europe with her, I'd love to do that I want to go always would have said yes if I understood the question. And I joked about wanting six kids it's so stupid, I want three....... I just I just wish I had known what she was trying to ask me! I just I'm so dense I'm so friggen aspie that I can't understand anything. I wish I never remembered those stupid questions, she's in love with someone else now. I can't do anything I'm it actually hurts properly now. I'm always going to be an aspie, she couldn't know I wouldn't understand.