I've lost my will to eat

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I don't have much of an appetite, after what happened with JMB, yesterday. I'd be better off drinking meal replacement shakes, fro breakfaast and lunch.

Don't attach any importance to it. You don't know the person and he doesn't know you.

I hope you get your will to eat back.

he was "crusin for a bursin"

(or at least he was askin for some routemaster tracks on his britches!)

If something badly upsets me, I'll sometimes just stop eating and drinking -- anything,except the occasional glass of milk -- for several days at a time.

But I try not to let petty trolls like JMB get to me. Think about what his actions say about him. It almost makes you feel sorry for the poor schmuck.

But only almost. It doesn't get in the way of pointing and laughing.

I don't want to get paranoid, but I THOUGHT I made a post here. It is now GONE. If anyone with the authority to delete my posts has a problem with my posts PLEASE LET ME KNOW. That way I can help BOTH of us and improve the overall content of my posts.

I'm sorry Cockney... These situations usually make me overeat though. I'll trade problems with you

Edit: If you don't want to talk about it, you don't have to... But what exactly about the JBM situation are you talking about. I've only caught bits and pieces of it (and what I have seen is pretty bad). But I think I may have missed the last straw with him.

Mostly stuff about how no man would ever want to sleep with CockneyRebel and stuff like that. I'm keeping out of this but abusing members, whoever they might be, isn't on.

He also called me a Lesbian and said it was a fact. He also told me to shove a Routemaster up my hairy vaccum.

eating is very cool. i just bought some healthy garden salsa chips and guacomole dip, that i will be enjoying later.

Insults are generally lies, so why should it bother you? If he'd claim that the world's a disc, would you bother to refute it?

JBM is a seriously disturbed individual, so of course his comments are going to be off. I worked with severally disturbed children for 18 years. Now if I was to believe everything they've said to me....... then..... I'm a whore, my husbands a whore, my dog's a whore, the cats a whore,my kids are......you get the picture? If a guy like JBM finds you unattractive, then good...you don't want guys like him knocking down the door to get a date with you now do you????? Of course you don't. So as far as I'm concerend, wacked out, crazed, dangerous men don't find you attractive????? Then you are doing ok.I sure hope I'm in the same boat as you, 'cause I don't want them finding me attractive either. Think about where those words are coming from. Now I love my boys that I worked with, but when they loose it,they say things they are sorry for later. But JBM is a grown man, and I privately e-mailed him offereing to find him help. HE HAS NOT TAKEN ME UP ON THAT. Don't let a guy like that get to you. Be glad they stay away, that way you are safe, and really, you only want the good ones anyways. JBM is not one of them. I remember when I was a teen and this nasty guy asked me out.........there went my ego. Someone like that liked me....UGH!! !! ! Thought I was going to be scarred for life.

Dont let anyone get to you at any time. They are as human as you and as prone to this type of stuff just as much as you but its how you handle it that makes the difference.