I had to make the decision

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And it was a decision I wasn't prepared to make. They asked if I just wanted comfort measures or aggressive treatment. I had to talk to two RN's and an MD so they could get the consent on the phone. I chose comfort.

I'm too numb. I don't feel this at all. I'm terrified of what will happen when I do feel it.

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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Well, I think you made the right decision. If you went with aggressive she may last longer, but it probably wouldnt be worth it. My Dad died 3 years ago from cancer that spread eveywhere, slowly eating him away. In the last month it was like his body was already decomposing while he was still alive.
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^ Ditto that when my mother died. She was a skin covered skeleton by the end. I wish she'd died sooner (for her sake) rather than carry on suffering like she did for so long.

I also think you made the right decision. Hugs and prayers.

My mom had a massive stroke 4 days after her 91st birthday. She was paralyzed from the neck down, and there was no hope for recovering any of her physical function. She had been fairly active for her age, and had full possession of her mental faculties before the stroke. My sister and I both agreed and told her doctors, keep her as comfortable as possible, but if she starts to go, let her go. She finally slipped away 5 days later. It was her time.

When it comes, let it out. Doesn't matter if people think you're crazy. I sounded like a wounded animal. My dad died on 4/18/14. It will then come in spurts. It will hit you when you least expect it. Remember your mom loves you and wants you to live on.

I am thinking of finding a grief support group.

I am thinking of you, even though I don't know you.

You made the right choice.