Why don't people like me?

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11 Apr 2007, 7:59 pm

:(

Even when I'm being normal.
Even when I have the same interest as them.
People still don't like me. Even when we have everything in common. They still don't like me. They think I'm a "fag".

I wish I could keep my anger/sadness under control, instead of screaming at people... But... "Hey guys, that Andy kid is such a fag, eh?" ... Man, f**k you guys. I thought you guys were awesome.



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11 Apr 2007, 8:11 pm

Hard to say, cant type my belief about this because I know nothing about you.



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11 Apr 2007, 8:19 pm

Unless someone outright says they do not like you, it is too easy to assume that they do...you cannot be sure. And I am sure that not everyone dislikes you. Maybe those who dislike you are simply not compatible with you anyway, so you do not lose out much.


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11 Apr 2007, 8:35 pm

Every group needs an outsider- someone to hate. If there's no one hate-worthy around, they'll pick on whoever seems most vulnerable.



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11 Apr 2007, 9:11 pm

Oddish wrote:
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I wish I could keep my anger/sadness under control, instead of screaming at people... But... "Hey guys, that Andy kid is such a fag, eh?" ... Man, f**k you guys. I thought you guys were awesome.


I got the same thing in School cause I talked with my hands, and my Names Andrew as well, people are afriad of what they don't understand



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11 Apr 2007, 9:24 pm

It's not just you - people don't like what's different, they don't like the unconventional. But do not think you have to pretend to be 'normal' or something you're not to impress them - why would you want to be friends with those haters anyway? Be yourself, if you get any friends out of it then at least you know they'll be true friends, they'll like you for the real you. If not, then you'll always be accepted here at WP. Good luck man.


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12 Apr 2007, 9:41 am

People can be so frigin ignorant sometimes. oeople that you think are their friends come back and stab you in the back. Its enough to make you want to scream!



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12 Apr 2007, 7:12 pm

cecilfienkelstien wrote:
People can be so frigin ignorant sometimes. oeople that you think are their friends come back and stab you in the back. Its enough to make you want to scream!


Especially when those people talk about you behind your back and pretend to be all nice to your face.



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12 Apr 2007, 7:54 pm

Esperanza wrote:
Every group needs an outsider- someone to hate. If there's no one hate-worthy around, they'll pick on whoever seems most vulnerable.


That's a very good point. Your problem may stem from the fact that you're always "the new guy."



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12 Apr 2007, 9:18 pm

I could ask the same question to myself.



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12 Apr 2007, 11:26 pm

RedMage wrote:
I could ask the same question to myself.


I guess it is a common feeling, but that doesn't make it any less frustrating.



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12 Apr 2007, 11:59 pm

Oddish wrote:
RedMage wrote:
I could ask the same question to myself.


I guess it is a common feeling, but that doesn't make it any less frustrating.

Darn tooting, see I think it's jealousy as most people are sneaky types who hide who their are, so when someone is honest about themselves, it frightens them