Yelling at people I live with....

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Ok so living at my moms place, I do my best to pick up after myself and sometimes I end up leaving little things out like a tea wrapper or maybe bagles that I put a twist tie on. But they always b***h at me about stuff left in the kitchen when half the time it is their stuff....mostly I don't even eat here and they want me to load the dishwasher and keep up on dishes when they are the ones who use them. Then they like to lock the door at 8 at night so if I go out for a smoke and happen to forget my key I have to knock and wake people up. THere was a key oustide the back door in a rock looking device but someone moved it a long time ago.....yet every time I have to knock my moms boyfriend says 'well why don't you use the key in the rock' and I have told him at least 50 times there is no rock thing with a key in it and I don't know what happened to it. Just really frusterating, then I got a naked juice and it mysteriously disappeared and no one knew what happened....good god cant even get myself a naked juice smoothy to save for later without it disappearing and no one knowing what happened to it.

so yes I have yelled at people, its really getting on my nerves, I mean I make an effort to clean up after myself dont leave huge messes anywhere and yet they cannot stop their bitching. So I have gone off, even earlier tonight....they just don't get it and try to dismiss it as me being drunk...when maybe its the getting drunk that helps me say the things I want to say. Also though forgot to add the majority of times I have got in arguments its when I am 100% sober.....but its like if i happen to have drank some even like a beer or two and something comes up they'll try to put it on that but the majority of the time this stuff happens when I haven't drank at all....so just thought I'd clarify that bit.

Last edited by Sweetleaf on 06 Oct 2014, 11:49 am, edited 1 time in total.

you need to learn to state your case without alcohol or yelling. it will be more effective.

I know, but I have tried that....just now wrote a note, said I am really trying to do my best and that I think of suicide on a daily basis and that the reason I will not act on it is because I care about my mom, I care about my dad, I care about my two brothers and I care I about my sister, I cannot do that to them, no matter how much pain I am in, I just can't.

but if it makes any differnece most of these conflicts do not come up when I have been drinking, I have observed it sober.....more went and got beer so it wouldn't disturb me as much that they where fighting. They do it all the time so sometimes I just want beer so I can avoid giving a crap for a while to be honest. I just don't know what to do, I have to move out but me and my brother have cats we dont want to abandon....so we have to find a place that might take them. grr wanna get out of my moms place so bad so i can just have people over and host parties and what not.....they'd have to listen to metal and psychedelic s**t, maybe some industrial but they better choose the right industrial or they gotta drink via the drinking game.

...think that was meant for somewhere else so deleted....anyways still frusterated about topic to some extent.