Worried I should have kids and finding my nephew annoying

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My sister and my mum have explained to me in the past, after my 4 year old nephew has one of his tantrums or hyper moments ''Well do you still want kids? That's what you have got to put up with.'' There have been times when he is not too bad but there are moments when he is very hyper, running and following people around. I don't always like it when he enters my bedroom seeing what I am up to and don't feel very keen on seeing or touching things in my room.

I don't know why I get these thoughts on both sides of my brain telling to have kids regardless of wanting them or not simply because I've seen my sister and other peers having them and another part of me strongly feels unready for children but I feel ''bad'' as though I feel I ''should be ready'' by now.