Am I annoying?

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Lately I've been struggling with how I see myself vs. how other people see me. I view myself as annoying and aggravating, possibly to the point of having no future whatsoever because there's nothing to like about me. My two dream jobs both require some interpersonal skills, which means that if I can't give off a good impression, I'm screwed. (That also means I'm going to have to work on my self-esteem, but I still have some time.)

For whatever reason, I feel as though I'm more open with myself here than most places, which means that here is where my personality is really coming out (although I'm holding a lot of the negative stuff away, but that's to be expected).

So, in all honesty - and I'm aware that by posting this I'm setting myself up for harsh/blunt comments, which is fine - am I annoying? If not, how do I come across? I'm sorry if this seems like an attempt to get compliments or something - it's really not, and I'm not expecting many positive comments - I just want to know what impression I'm giving so that I can change it if I need to. I know that my view of myself is distorted, but I don't know how much.

Thanks.

no, I like you

No way.

And that is coming from someone who finds A LOT of people annoying.

I do not find you annoying.

Totally not, I like you...not come across you doing anything annoying.

No. I really don't know you that well,but I certainly don't find you annoying.


-SpaceCase

I haven't been here long so I can't say that I know you that well, but you certainly haven't done anything the least bit annoying so far. Of course these are just Internet forums. I don't know what you're like in real life.

Omg, that is so weird... I thought you were kevv who posts here sometimes as he has the same avatar...teach me to not check the names! Welcome back by the way

I first notice you in this thread :

http://www.wrongplanet.net/modules.php? ... ty&start=0




And noticed your personality disorder screening profile was close to mine so since then assume your more like me than the typical person here.

I know that I'm new here and that I probably have no place even offering my input on this subject but I sometimes have a hard time holding back when I feel something needs to be said. No, I don't think you're annoying. Just from the sound of your post, I can tell that you are a very conscientious person and you care how you are perceived by others. I also have the same feeling sometimes and I really wish I could find someone to just give me the "brutal, honest truth". But the truth is, nobody really cares about how you act or behave as much as you do, so when asking someone if you're annoying the answer is probably no. (kinda like, if someone were to ask me if they were crazy, I would say no; if someone told me they were NOT crazy, they cleary would be the craziest!)

Just for good mesure..

YES, I find you annoying.

Annoying? NO WAY! Not one bit mate!

Not really.

CHIRP!

There are a few members I find annoying (I don't hate anyone). You are not on that list.

I don't find you anoying, at all. I enjoy reading your posts.