Co-worker of mine died in a fatal car accident.

Page 1 of 2 [ 17 posts ]  Go to page 1, 2  Next

AspieOtaku
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Feb 2012
Age: 42
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,051
Location: San Jose

03 Aug 2015, 5:51 pm

Well, life sucks a good coworker of mine died in a car crash I used to hang out with every Friday after work and I am feeling down, she was a good worker and a cool person but now shes gone. http://kron4.com/2015/07/31/woman-in-fa ... dentified/ We had a meeting this morning about what happen to her and held a memorial for her. Her name was Misty I knew her for just few months but worked side by side with her until she was gone. This s**t sucks.


_________________
Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList


kraftiekortie
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

03 Aug 2015, 6:07 pm

Yep, that does suck.

I send my condolences.



AspieOtaku
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Feb 2012
Age: 42
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,051
Location: San Jose

03 Aug 2015, 6:41 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Yep, that does suck.

I send my condolences.
Thanks its kinda hard adjusting to the surrounding without that extra person around, one day you see the person next day they are gone forever now I am very very sad I miss her already.


_________________
Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList


kraftiekortie
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

03 Aug 2015, 6:45 pm

I know what you mean.

I know it feels weird not having her around.

As a tribute to her, make sure you remain a good person.



AspieOtaku
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Feb 2012
Age: 42
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,051
Location: San Jose

03 Aug 2015, 7:53 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I know what you mean.

I know it feels weird not having her around.

As a tribute to her, make sure you remain a good person.
I will, I just wish she was alive today, at least she lived to see that gay marriage was legalized before her passing I will have to offer her gf my condolences, she was a real cool person and a great pool player as well. She was a lesbian and a good friend, I considered her as a fellow guy and we talked guy talk and talked about how hot some women are and she kinda egged me on to check out the tall girl up stairs I might just ask that amazon out for her sake but since shes gone I am too sad to do so. We were like bros now I am short a bro this s**t sucks, if god is real he is a jerk and I want to punch him in the face and get her back but thats life and reality, that's the bearded as*hole working in mysterious ways again! I am angry, frustrated and sad at the same time, why did this have to happen?!She was like a brother to me wtf did she have to die this is all BS! I am crying right now and I don't cry very often!


_________________
Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList


AspieOtaku
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Feb 2012
Age: 42
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,051
Location: San Jose

03 Aug 2015, 8:41 pm

Misty Hernandez if you can read this in spirit form I say Shake and Bake! In your honor, that was our saying and thing! I never saw Talladega Nights but I will now, I miss you very much you were one of the coolest people I knew! I am sad I am very very sad, please save me a spot at the pool table up there when my time comes!


_________________
Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList


cathylynn
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 24 Aug 2011
Gender: Female
Posts: 13,045
Location: northeast US

03 Aug 2015, 8:44 pm

it's hard to lose a good friend. my condolences.



AspieOtaku
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Feb 2012
Age: 42
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,051
Location: San Jose

03 Aug 2015, 8:51 pm

cathylynn wrote:
it's hard to lose a good friend. my condolences.
Thank you, I will never forget her, I will try and live on as much as I can! I must be strong that is what she would have wanted she lives in my memories and with all of us who work there. Crying sucks and being sad sucks but I cannot help it right now I wish she was still alive hanging out with the rest of us having a few drinks and playing pool.


_________________
Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList


AspieOtaku
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Feb 2012
Age: 42
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,051
Location: San Jose

03 Aug 2015, 10:10 pm

Misty, here is a parting song for you although you may have not been familiar with anime and such as I have I dedicate this song to you, it is a sad and touching song and the same song I linked when I left WP when times are tough hope you enjoy it, I miss you very much you were a good friend and coworker! I will forever miss you along with the rest of the team, I already miss you and am hurting inside, I hope you are not in pain and in a better place, dont worry about me I am sad and crying and down right now but I will be strong for you and finish your tasks for you, looking forward to seeing you on the other side, shake and bake! I owe you a rematch at pool wherever you are at when my time comes! Misty you were a good friend and thank you! Thank you for everything we all miss you!


_________________
Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList


Myriad
Deinonychus
Deinonychus

User avatar

Joined: 11 Jun 2015
Age: 30
Posts: 315

04 Aug 2015, 7:37 am

I am so sorry to hear about your loss, AspieOtaku. I can't imagine what it must be like to lose a close friend.

I believe Misty is in a good place and I'm sure she appreciates your tributes.

I'll be thinking of you, as well as her partner and everyone else who knew her.


_________________
Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 129 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 100 of 200
You seem to have both neurodiverse and neurotypical traits
AQ: 39 / 50


AspieOtaku
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Feb 2012
Age: 42
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,051
Location: San Jose

04 Aug 2015, 7:55 pm

Myriad wrote:
I am so sorry to hear about your loss, AspieOtaku. I can't imagine what it must be like to lose a close friend.

I believe Misty is in a good place and I'm sure she appreciates your tributes.

I'll be thinking of you, as well as her partner and everyone else who knew her.
I will never forget her she was a good person, I shall stand firm with pride and carry out her unfinished tasks since her name is still on the schedual but she will not be around.


_________________
Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList


Catlover5
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 9 May 2015
Age: 25
Gender: Male
Posts: 5,199
Location: Norfolk, UK

05 Aug 2015, 11:05 am

RIP Misty. My condolences :cry:



OliveOilMom
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 11 Nov 2011
Age: 60
Gender: Female
Posts: 11,447
Location: About 50 miles past the middle of nowhere

05 Aug 2015, 5:58 pm

Sorry for your loss. I recently lost a friend to murder and it's always shocking when somebody dies suddenly.

If there is anything I can do, let me know.


_________________
I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA. ;-)

The link to the forum is http://www.rightplanet.proboards.com


VegetableMan
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 11 Jun 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 5,208
Location: Illinois

05 Aug 2015, 6:05 pm

Very sorry for your loss. I'm dealing with the death of a good friend currently, so I understand the grief process. It takes time to go through. My deepest condolences!


_________________
What do you call a hot dog in a gangster suit?

Oscar Meyer Lansky


AspieOtaku
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Feb 2012
Age: 42
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,051
Location: San Jose

05 Aug 2015, 9:15 pm

Thanks for your support guys, I wish she could see this because if she can she would be happy. I miss her alot I dont know how I will move on without her it is going to be hard. I am hurting a lot inside.


_________________
Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList


invaderhorizongreen
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 Jan 2015
Age: 41
Gender: Female
Posts: 509
Location: planet everdream

05 Aug 2015, 9:44 pm

My condolences I experienced the same thing, with a co worker who was like a brother to me. I will say you shall always miss them, nothing will change that.