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MSBKyle
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04 Aug 2015, 5:52 pm

I am 22 and I am getting sick and tired of life. I can't find a job, I have very little friends, and I have obsessive thoughts which lead to anxiety and depression. I just don't see the fun or the good in life. I feel that it only gets worse as I grow up and get older. The best times of my life were when I was a kid. My life will never be what it once was when I was a kid. I have had to endure so many changes since then and I am no fan of change. Time goes way too fast and life is just passing me by. I feel socially awkward all the time and have trouble talking to people. I do enjoy being alone a lot of the time, but it would also be nice to have other people to do things with. I am currently off school for the summer, and I have done hardly anything with my time off. Sometimes being dead seems like a better alternative than living. Nobody understands me and they all expect me to be like everyone else. Everyday I feel like a loser and that I have no purpose here. I am just going to keep getting older and have to deal with millions of more changes throughout my life.



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04 Aug 2015, 6:29 pm

What you are majoring in?



MSBKyle
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04 Aug 2015, 7:27 pm

History



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04 Aug 2015, 11:35 pm

I love history.

It takes me away from the slings and arrows of present-day life.

There are many interesting stories, philosophies, interpretations, etc. in history.

Why would you want to take yourself away from all this Gold Stuff?



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06 Aug 2015, 7:21 pm

MSBKyle wrote:
I am 22 and I am getting sick and tired of life. I can't find a job and have trouble talking to people. I do enjoy being alone a lot of the time, but it would also be nice to have other people to do things with. I am currently off school for the summer, and I have done hardly anything with my time off. Sometimes being dead seems like a better alternative than living. Nobody understands me and they all expect me to be like everyone else. Everyday I feel like a loser and that I have no purpose here. I am just going to keep getting older and have to deal with millions of more changes throughout my life.


Nothings worse than feeling like a loner, believe me. When you're feeling down, you've got to find a way to pick yourself back up. So, if socialising is not your strong point, maybe just try and push your survival instincts to whatever geographically interests you.. socially or otherwise, otherwise there will be places where you'd wish you'd gone to and find that the map isn't big enough. You'll know what I mean later on.

Good luck with the subject.


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08 Aug 2015, 2:20 pm

"I feel that it only gets worse as I grow up and get older."

Yes, it does ...



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14 Aug 2015, 9:48 pm

MSBKyle wrote:
I am 22 and I am getting sick and tired of life. I can't find a job, I have very little friends, and I have obsessive thoughts which lead to anxiety and depression. I just don't see the fun or the good in life. I feel that it only gets worse as I grow up and get older. The best times of my life were when I was a kid. My life will never be what it once was when I was a kid. I have had to endure so many changes since then and I am no fan of change. Time goes way too fast and life is just passing me by. I feel socially awkward all the time and have trouble talking to people. I do enjoy being alone a lot of the time, but it would also be nice to have other people to do things with. I am currently off school for the summer, and I have done hardly anything with my time off. Sometimes being dead seems like a better alternative than living. Nobody understands me and they all expect me to be like everyone else. Everyday I feel like a loser and that I have no purpose here. I am just going to keep getting older and have to deal with millions of more changes throughout my life.



same situation here dear, i even lost my faith an all of my friends. all that's left for me is my immediate family but i feel that it's because they have obligation in me. i got some low quality education and currently jobless. i really dont know what to do with my life. i would gladly welcome death now, be it accident or terminal decease but i dont want to be the one to end this existence of mine....maybe because im still hoping that some good will happen to me, its hard trying to survive every single day and putting back yourself every time you fall but just endure dear...everything happens for a reason. no matter how miserable our situation is now.


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