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27 Apr 2016, 2:26 pm

I can't stand being around women who think their better then me.



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27 Apr 2016, 2:29 pm

Why do you think that they think like that of you?



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27 Apr 2016, 3:36 pm

This is depression talking. I've been there, everyone seems to hate you because your brain believes that even though it's not true.

Serious note, have you seen a doctor about the depression?



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27 Apr 2016, 3:56 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Why do you think that they think like that of you?

Becaus lots of women do, and they won't even acknowledge me when I say morning or hi.



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27 Apr 2016, 3:57 pm

Do you take any medications sly?



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27 Apr 2016, 4:01 pm

Meant this for haven :/



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27 Apr 2016, 4:02 pm

Jacoby wrote:
Do you take any medications sly?

No I don't beleive in using medicine



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27 Apr 2016, 4:13 pm

sly279 wrote:
Jacoby wrote:
Do you take any medications sly?

No I don't beleive in using medicine


maybe anxiety medicine would help you, I feel like it has helped me



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27 Apr 2016, 4:14 pm

sly279 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Why do you think that they think like that of you?

Becaus lots of women do, and they won't even acknowledge me when I say morning or hi.


I knew such people at work, I've stopped telling them Good morning or hi after few attempts (and I was really hearable).

And then suddenly after few days of deliberately ignoring them, they start saying hi and good morning to me.

It's funny how strong reverse psychology is, it works every time for me in such cases.

Be like me!



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27 Apr 2016, 4:27 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
sly279 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Why do you think that they think like that of you?

Becaus lots of women do, and they won't even acknowledge me when I say morning or hi.


I knew such people at work, I've stopped telling them Good morning or hi after few attempts (and I was really hearable).

And then suddenly after few days of deliberately ignoring them, they start saying hi and good morning to me.

It's funny how strong reverse psychology is, it works every time for me in such cases.

Be like me!


Work requires it. It's grounds for referral as we all had to sign a thing saying we understood what is expected of us.
They didn't like that we aren't being nice to each other at work I guess. I've only been here 8 months though. I've tried keeping to myself



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27 Apr 2016, 4:33 pm

Jacoby wrote:
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Jacoby wrote:
Do you take any medications sly?

No I don't beleive in using medicine


maybe anxiety medicine would help you, I feel like it has helped me

I don't want any mind alter drugs that make me lose my rights. As is we already have a law where anyone can report you anonymously and have your guns taken away pending your request to get them back then trial I presume.

Anissa isn't the reason I'm depressed anyways. Just why I come home worried every night but given I'm a aspie who's terrible at social interaction hence while I'm on ssi, it's not crazy to worry I'm. f**k up and do or say the wrong thing as i tend to in out her situations. But I doubt work will find it funny or cute like friends did.



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27 Apr 2016, 5:32 pm

Please stay with the job, Sly.



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27 Apr 2016, 6:34 pm

sly279 wrote:
Jacoby wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Jacoby wrote:
Do you take any medications sly?

No I don't beleive in using medicine


maybe anxiety medicine would help you, I feel like it has helped me

I don't want any mind alter drugs that make me lose my rights. As is we already have a law where anyone can report you anonymously and have your guns taken away pending your request to get them back then trial I presume.

Anissa isn't the reason I'm depressed anyways. Just why I come home worried every night but given I'm a aspie who's terrible at social interaction hence while I'm on ssi, it's not crazy to worry I'm. f**k up and do or say the wrong thing as i tend to in out her situations. But I doubt work will find it funny or cute like friends did.


I don't think you'd have your guns taken away for taking anxiety medication, I never took medication before very recently too and I do believe it has helped me altho not cured me obviously but it has allowed me to do some things I probably wouldn't of otherwise. When you've lived so much of your life with such constant anxiety it really is big change to at least be free of the physical aspect of that. Might be worth a try, it could increase your quality of life.



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27 Apr 2016, 6:43 pm

Even if you don't want to take medication you can still see a psychologist.



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27 Apr 2016, 7:45 pm

Jacoby wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Jacoby wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Jacoby wrote:
Do you take any medications sly?

No I don't beleive in using medicine


maybe anxiety medicine would help you, I feel like it has helped me

I don't want any mind alter drugs that make me lose my rights. As is we already have a law where anyone can report you anonymously and have your guns taken away pending your request to get them back then trial I presume.

Anissa isn't the reason I'm depressed anyways. Just why I come home worried every night but given I'm a aspie who's terrible at social interaction hence while I'm on ssi, it's not crazy to worry I'm. f**k up and do or say the wrong thing as i tend to in out her situations. But I doubt work will find it funny or cute like friends did.


I don't think you'd have your guns taken away for taking anxiety medication, I never took medication before very recently too and I do believe it has helped me altho not cured me obviously but it has allowed me to do some things I probably wouldn't of otherwise. When you've lived so much of your life with such constant anxiety it really is big change to at least be free of the physical aspect of that. Might be worth a try, it could increase your quality of life.


Probably wouldn't get them anyways, they wouldn't give me back mess for my adhd which is a problem. If they won't give me mess for something I'm diagnosed for why would they give me anxiety meds.



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27 Apr 2016, 7:47 pm

marshall wrote:
Even if you don't want to take medication you can still see a psychologist.

1. No if they even catch a hint I get depressed the police will be at my door for my guns.

2. I tried for my adhd since medical doctor even though could won't prescrib mental meds. They all full up. Going be years before they can take new patients probably. With Obama care came a huge influx of people wanting to see psychologists and therapists. My last thereapyst wanted to drop me because he was stresss with too many patients.