NOISY family will ruin my life

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16 Jul 2016, 1:04 am

I live at home and have recently moved with my family to a completely new city.

This is a much quieter, peaceful nieghborhood compared to our old one/s in the past.

In the past we were always usually near highways so whatever neighbors we had wouldn't have heard us through the traffic as it helps drown noise out.

We also lived in more spacious areas/yards - the new place is right in the middle of suburbia.

My family has not since changed in noise levels.

It is not the adults/older people (e.g. me, mum, step-dad, uncle) but selfish, loud younger siblings.

They yell, cry, scream, etc. and in turn cause my mum and step-dad to yell back.

I have not contributed to any sort of major noise at all in the house since we've lived here, and at the old house was also one of, if not the most quiet.

I am constantly scared and afraid that my family will get kicked out due to noise complaints.

I'm not sure how many warnings you're allowed in my state/country, if any at all, but I do know any eviction warning gives you two weeks to leave maximum.

I'm nowhere near-ready to live on my own, so moving out is not an option.

I guess if worst case scenario we get kicked out, we may be able to rushingly put our stuff into storage (but mum would probably have to borrow massive amounts of money from me and my uncle, when she already owed me over $1100 previously.) and have to drive 4hrs to temporarly stay at my Nan's house.

Even then as close as family relations with them are, too much time around them tends to erupt in fights and arguments, again never my fault whatsoever.

F*ck my life and f*ck this sh*t.

My typical life. Having to suffer because of the stupidity of others.



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16 Jul 2016, 6:08 am

Have there actually been noise complaints?



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16 Jul 2016, 7:53 am

Soon you will be living on your own and you won't have to worry about getting evicted due to your siblings. Also I can say from experience that living by yourself is very quite and very peaceful.


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